"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Approaching Women, while your with a chick friend.

gimmeyofonenumba

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I went to the malll of all places with a chick friend, i wanted to run in and pick something up real quick, as i was dropping her off. Instead she said she wanted to chill at the mall for a while so i said hmm ok, i guess it beats sarging alone. She walks into a store and starts looking at some outfits, and i told her i was gonna go pick up some chicks, she said "haha, fine then, lets see it" I approach 3 chicks overall I gave plenty of eye contact, good BL, but when I asked their ages, they were all too young, and I figured it was enough practice, and I'd end it there(should i maybe lie about my age, and try getting a #?) Anyways my chick friend, ask how it goes, I say fine, but i could tell she was interested. Later on she asks me about what I said, I told her, and she didnt say anything. I guess she thought I wasnt that ballsy. Anyways, I think im starting to like the chick friend as more then just a friend. Was this whole thing a bad idea, and should i drop it before i develop oneitis? or should i pursue... Btw. Its a group of 3 chicks, not 3 seperate chicks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
I went to the malll of all places with a chick friend, i wanted to run in and pick something up real quick, as i was dropping her off. Instead she said she wanted to chill at the mall for a while so i said hmm ok, i guess it beats sarging alone. She walks into a store and starts looking at some outfits, and i told her i was gonna go pick up some chicks, she said "haha, fine then, lets see it" I approach 3 chicks overall I gave plenty of eye contact, good BL, but when I asked their ages, they were all too young, and I figured it was enough practice, and I'd end it there(should i maybe lie about my age, and try getting a #?) Anyways my chick friend, ask how it goes, I say fine, but i could tell she was interested. Later on she asks me about what I said, I told her, and she didnt say anything. I guess she thought I wasnt that ballsy. Anyways, I think im starting to like the chick friend as more then just a friend. Was this whole thing a bad idea, and should i drop it before i develop oneitis? or should i pursue...
I 'll say this: You kno what you need to do to put your mind at ease-no one knows you better than yourself-you know problem which is this chick friend..since she seem to be so interested in your love life then why don't you give her a personal experience?
 

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I wouldnt say she is "so interested in my love life" I think she was just interested in what i had to say.Same thing, as if she was approaching guys, Id been pissed as hell(j/k) but i'd still ask her what she said. I can tell this chick will give alota sh!t tests as well. Like I have to be looking into everything from 2 perspectives now.
 

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The best defense is a good offense.

Strike first!

Put this girl solidly in the 'friends zone' while you still can.

We all know what happens when you pursue a girl who has put you in the friends zone, it's not worth it!

She'll make a fine pivot to help you pick up chicks - unless she has feelings for you - just don't turn into the chump.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
The best defense is a good offense.

Strike first!

Put this girl solidly in the 'friends zone' while you still can.

We all know what happens when you pursue a girl who has put you in the friends zone, it's not worth it!

She'll make a fine pivot to help you pick up chicks - unless she has feelings for you - just don't turn into the chump.
So you think i should stick her in the Fzone? (how would i go about doing that) just keep hanging out with her like we have the past few times?) cause the past 2 times ive chilled with her, she was at work I went in to mess around with her and she would wanna go do something later. Im just not sure how exactly you keep her in the Fzone. Do i actually need to say anything? and i wait for her to initiate something more than friends? also, what do you mean by pivot? like a chick that helps you pick up chicks? lol. Also, does approaching other chicks in front of her effect her interest level? ALOTA questions, 'ppreciate it guys.
 
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