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Approaching Women After You Have Had Sex

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Has anyone noticed that they get way better results with approaching after having sex that same day?

This isn't a placebo since this happened to me on several different occasions, Idk if it's the confidence or the fact that women can smell the sex on you but i seem to get way better results after having sex

If it's possible you should always have sex before you go out to cold approach.
 

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But yea, it’s true. It’s that unspoken swagger, confidence, lack of thirst, and maybe some pheromones that women can smell when you’re out after having just gotten sex. Like a short term abundance mindset.
 

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One time in Vegas, this chick I pulled had just left my hotel room around 2am.

I didn't shower after*. Just combed my hair and put my clothes back on. Went down to the casino floor about 2:30 am. Caught mad eye contact from this blonde. Locked eyes with her and started making out (no words). Came very close to pulling a second time, but not quite.

*I quite literally still had the scent of the first chick still on me.
 

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Sex before approach sessions = Good
Masturbation before approach sessions = Not Good

Different chemical releases.
Apperntly having sex increases your testosterone

One time in Vegas, this chick I pulled had just left my hotel room around 2am.

I didn't shower after*. Just combed my hair and put my clothes back on. Went down to the casino floor about 2:30 am. Caught mad eye contact from this blonde. Locked eyes with her and started making out (no words). Came very close to pulling a second time, but not quite.

*I quite literally still had the scent of the first chick still on me.
It could be the androstenedione phermone thats released after sex, or maybe they can smell another woman on you and that increases competition anxiety
 

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Having sex will temporarily increase confidence and lower outcome dependence. The outcome dependence being neediness stemming from the desperation to get laid or a desire for an approach to go well.

Of course, this will have a positive effect on your subconscious behaviour. Your body language and mindset will no longer be influenced from a place of lack or deficiency, since you just topped up on sex and female validation.

Women won’t necessarily know that you literally just had sex, but again your behaviour will come off more confidently and less needy, and that is what is attractive to women.

It’s similar to when you get into a relationship with a chick and soon after start to notice that all these interested women come crawling out of the woodwork, seemingly giving you more potential sexual options than you had before the relationship.

So whether it’s because you just got laid or just got into an LTR, noticeable improved results when approaching are because you are no longer operating from a place of lack (hence why adopting abundance mindset is popular here).
 

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That's because the devil is controlling your life and he wants people to have sex outside of marriage. You get a soul-tie and demons from one woman, then those demons communicate with the demons from another woman to set up the next sexual encounter. Its all orchestrated in the kingdom of darkness. If we had special glasses on, we would see how these spirits operate. Its all a set-up. I'm well aware of the deceiver's tool-box methods.
 

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Having sex will temporarily increase confidence and lower outcome dependence. The outcome dependence being neediness stemming from the desperation to get laid or a desire for an approach to go well.

Of course, this will have a positive effect on your subconscious behaviour. Your body language and mindset will no longer be influenced from a place of lack or deficiency, since you just topped up on sex and female validation.

Women won’t necessarily know that you literally just had sex, but again your behaviour will come off more confidently and less needy, and that is what is attractive to women.

It’s similar to when you get into a relationship with a chick and soon after start to notice that all these interested women come crawling out of the woodwork, seemingly giving you more potential sexual options than you had before the relationship.

So whether it’s because you just got laid or just got into an LTR, noticeable improved results when approaching are because you are no longer operating from a place of lack (hence why adopting abundance mindset is popular here).
This sums it up…

When you have the option to have sex before going out to potentially find more girls, you probably don’t need to look up the right thing to do on here.
 

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The other thing is that "afterglow" mood of sorts. Like when you're cuddling with a chick after sex and your mind is soo clear and relaxed. You feel incredibly "chill," and the conversation flows effortlessly.

That could certainly help your game if you go out immediately after sex.
 

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One thing that people have not mentioned is that this effect is felt by other women when the girl you just laid was a new conquest not an old fling/your girlfriend (I see no difference banging a girl your seeing on the side on the same day you going out to get new chicks Vs if you hadn't had sex that day).

I've experienced this several times when I laid a chick and then went out to get another. Or walking up and walking around town very relaxed after having a ONS the previous night.

I've experienced this a couple times with my girlfriend noticing that I was acting a little bit different than usual when Id go see her. And she somehow knew I just fvcked a girl in the past 24 hours.

So some heads up before people think they've discovered some game hack and will try to schedule in a bang with their fwb before a game session
 

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could certainly help your game if you go out immediately after sex
Yes it makes sense logically, but we need to talk about actual experiences like your Vegas story above.
 
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