"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approaching when you're at your LOWEST

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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When I say LOWEST, I mean looking ruff, unshaven or un-cut. Any guy that does this and succeeds everytime is a TRUE ALPHA MALE in my eyes, because it states here, that in order to get girls or HB's you have to be atleast a high average looking guy and being good looking /attractive is a bonus.

So, my question is - if you can do this and succeed with frequency, does it mean you've passed requirements as TRUE DJ "approaching-wise", because if you think about it, you're being "YOURSELF", no haircut, unshaven etc lol?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This site teaches inner strength and awesomeness. It doesn't teach how to dress and crap, thats all relative to your personality.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
This site teaches inner strength and awesomeness. It doesn't teach how to dress and crap, thats all relative to your personality.
Inner strength and awesomness? - HORSEHYT! You didn't asnwer my question, I haven't learned anything here, except for what was already in me has been resurged.

And it does say in order to approach women and succeed, you have to LOOK YOUR BEST atleast, so what the heck are you mumbling about? I didnt say anything about how the vck you dress, I'm talking abiut being your LOWEST on purpose and approaching. Being a bum-looking guy and still hitting on chicks, getting through - convert your answer on those basis, not some HIGHHORSED answer.
 

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No one is holding you back from it. Go out and do it. We all know your success rate is going to be lower if you look like a hobo rather than clean shaven.
 

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Sofomore said:
No one is holding you back from it. Go out and do it. We all know your success rate is going to be lower if you look like a hobo rather than clean shaven.
why would it be?, I'm not talking looking like a fvcking GEICO CAVEMAN, You know what I mean.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ah i see, well then in that case you can say it is a test of your skills. Most guys with below average looks that pick up 9's and 10's are a testament to that. Their personality is what shines.
 

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Sofomore said:
Ah i see, well then in that case you can say it is a test of your skills. Most guys with below average looks that pick up 9's and 10's are a testament to that. Their personality is what shines.
Yeah, true statement. That's each to their own.
 
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Last summer I attracted a girl with stubble and shabby looking hair, I resembled Eddie Vedder and I know it was my personality that attracted her.

And I've met a lot of women who go for the "rough look".
 
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