"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approaching when you're at your LOWEST

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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When I say LOWEST, I mean looking ruff, unshaven or un-cut. Any guy that does this and succeeds everytime is a TRUE ALPHA MALE in my eyes, because it states here, that in order to get girls or HB's you have to be atleast a high average looking guy and being good looking /attractive is a bonus.

So, my question is - if you can do this and succeed with frequency, does it mean you've passed requirements as TRUE DJ "approaching-wise", because if you think about it, you're being "YOURSELF", no haircut, unshaven etc lol?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MisterMcGee

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This site teaches inner strength and awesomeness. It doesn't teach how to dress and crap, thats all relative to your personality.
 

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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MisterMcGee said:
This site teaches inner strength and awesomeness. It doesn't teach how to dress and crap, thats all relative to your personality.
Inner strength and awesomness? - HORSEHYT! You didn't asnwer my question, I haven't learned anything here, except for what was already in me has been resurged.

And it does say in order to approach women and succeed, you have to LOOK YOUR BEST atleast, so what the heck are you mumbling about? I didnt say anything about how the vck you dress, I'm talking abiut being your LOWEST on purpose and approaching. Being a bum-looking guy and still hitting on chicks, getting through - convert your answer on those basis, not some HIGHHORSED answer.
 

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No one is holding you back from it. Go out and do it. We all know your success rate is going to be lower if you look like a hobo rather than clean shaven.
 

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Sofomore said:
No one is holding you back from it. Go out and do it. We all know your success rate is going to be lower if you look like a hobo rather than clean shaven.
why would it be?, I'm not talking looking like a fvcking GEICO CAVEMAN, You know what I mean.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah i see, well then in that case you can say it is a test of your skills. Most guys with below average looks that pick up 9's and 10's are a testament to that. Their personality is what shines.
 

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Sofomore said:
Ah i see, well then in that case you can say it is a test of your skills. Most guys with below average looks that pick up 9's and 10's are a testament to that. Their personality is what shines.
Yeah, true statement. That's each to their own.
 
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Last summer I attracted a girl with stubble and shabby looking hair, I resembled Eddie Vedder and I know it was my personality that attracted her.

And I've met a lot of women who go for the "rough look".
 
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