"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approaching The Girl Next Door...Literally

Juan_Man

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Would you do it? Would it be too awkward? If so, how would make your move?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chosen1

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no it would not be awkward it has been my experience that most women are nice especially neighbor women wait you are talking about a neighbor aw screw it
 

tmpgstx

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Wow, a member since 2001 you are Juan Man.

Mow your lawn with your shirt off and let her get some good glances at you.
 

WC2

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You'll never know till you try it. #1 rule of an approach is to go for it when its fresh.
 

KoalaKing

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A couple of years ago I became very strongly attracted to a HB8 who lived in the appartment next door to me, she smiled at me a lot, but in over a one year period I just couldn't ever approach her for a conversation, even though it seemed as if she was at least a bit interested in me, yet over one year later another HB8 moved into the appartment on the other side of me, I was also just as strongly attracted to her as I was the other girl, but for some unknown reason I found it so much easier to approach her, we talked and got to know each other very well within one month of her having moved in next door to me, this girl is now my girlfriend, yet still to this day I have never spoken to the girl who still lives in the appartment on the other side, this is a mystery to me, does it happen to other guys, is it to do with the girls or to do with me personally that I was able to talk to one within a week and the other I wasn't able to talk to in over a year before that, this isn't the only time that this has happened to me either. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Looks like you improved ^^,
 

Chosen1

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KoalaKing said:
A couple of years ago I became very strongly attracted to a HB8 who lived in the appartment next door to me, she smiled at me a lot, but in over a one year period I just couldn't ever approach her for a conversation, even though it seemed as if she was at least a bit interested in me, yet over one year later another HB8 moved into the appartment on the other side of me, I was also just as strongly attracted to her as I was the other girl, but for some unknown reason I found it so much easier to approach her, we talked and got to know each other very well within one month of her having moved in next door to me, this girl is now my girlfriend, yet still to this day I have never spoken to the girl who still lives in the appartment on the other side, this is a mystery to me, does it happen to other guys, is it to do with the girls or to do with me personally that I was able to talk to one within a week and the other I wasn't able to talk to in over a year before that, this isn't the only time that this has happened to me either. :D
hey, Kola king that sh!t happens all the time to me especially when i really really like a girl i can't seem to talk to her but if i don't have feelings for her at all i can say or do whatever weird huh
 

Juan_Man

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tmpgstx said:
Mow your lawn with your shirt off and let her get some good glances at you.
I've actually tried something similar along those lines (tight t-shirt instead of shirtless) but I have no idea if she's checking me out.
 
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