"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approaching Malls?

VegasGuy56

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Hey people,

Well, we all know hot girls hang out at malls, but how do we approach and stop them in a setting such as this where everyone is rushing around?

I approach as much as possible at school, but unfortunately there's just not much time except during class (And I already know everyone in my classes) or during lunch (Where everyone is in huge, usually tight groups).

So my question to the advanced DJs is, what is a good way to open or approach girls in these busy situations at malls or in other places?

Please only respond if you regularly approach and open girls in these situations.

Thanks,
Shane
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd like to know this too, I hit the mall for clothes and cds pretty often, usually alone, and I've thought about how I can actually approach, but it seems weird...
 

Distant Light

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Roleplaying, situationaly, Opinion opener, there are so many ways.
 
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