"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approaching girls in colleges that you don't go to

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Anybody ever try this? How successful was this for you? How did you open them and did you avoid talking about school (i think most guys who go to the same campus open with this)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you can talk about your school if not hers. You have to bring her into your reality and your world, no matter where you approach her. She will be more curious about you, because she doesn't know where you are coming from, so you need to capitalize on this and demonstrate your identity in a compelling way.
 
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Crestpaste said:
Anybody ever try this? How successful was this for you? How did you open them and did you avoid talking about school (i think most guys who go to the same campus open with this)?
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i actually like it better cause i can get really silly with it. i probably wont see those girls ever again, where as those at my college i would run into for the next little while at least

also in terms of fooling around with them, its better if they dont know your friends...
 
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