Approaching challenge

[Novadude]

This is a challenge to myself but feel free to join in if you want and share your own experiences and results.

I read all this stuff about, you shouldn't be afraid to approach girls and being rejected isn't half as bad as you make it out to be, however, i still find myself unable to approach. I always get nervous and so on.

So i decided to make this challenge for myself so that i would finally be able to overcome this fear once and for all.

The challenge itself is that i have to approach girls with the intention of being rejected. The challenge will be over after i have been rejected by 10 girls.

Hopefully by doing this i will learn that being rejected isn't as big a deal as you make it out to be and it is infact just another experience you can share with your mates and laugh about.

Also because i am after rejections, i will have no concern over saying stupid things and therefore be able to say whatever comes to mind without ever asking myself 'should i ask her that' or 'how will she react if i say that'. My hope is that eventually i'll be able to start convos without to much thought of what to say, as i will just know.

I ain't decide whether i should set myself a time limit yet but at the moment, i'm just gonna have a laugh completing this challenge.

Novadude

 

[Max Power]

The challenge itself is that i have to approach girls with the intention of being rejected. The challenge will be over after i have been rejected by 10 girls.

Also because i am after rejections, i will have no concern over saying stupid things

This is being field tested here. Tell them, "You're pretty." You'll be rejected.

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

This is weird...when i've used "You're pretty"...i've gotten good responses...did i do something wrong by not being rejected? O

 

[Cash37]

Its like a wall, push through it a couple times, then it will fall permanently (if that made sense). You dont need a slick pickup line, go in with whats on the top of your head. The key is to be calm, smooth, and charming.

 

[jtrain 289]

Im about to try something like that since womene are enitrely sexual i dont think they would react to rude comments as much as we think it would i figure the only one thinkin their rude is me so i am gonna go up to as many girls as i can and say sumthing blatantly sexual to them because im trying to get over my fears .