"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Approaching a passer byer while in front of other people..

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, I know theres been alota sh!ty posts lately, and im here to contribute another pvssy post. Heres the deal i can approach women that are in line, waiting for something, sitting at a bench. REason is, all theese women are usually by themselves, and are either waiting/bored or we have something in common at that time, and after recent field work. I've found my game not the openning game, but the conversation/flow is better than i expected. Anyways i've seen this asian babe walkin through the hall but some of my class mates are there leaning against the wall waiting for class to start. None of them are real close friends, only 1. But i talk to them before class, so when i see theese honeys walking by there is like nothing for me to say/do. Then i realized, id haveta come later, yet I just have a problem because i've never seen it done/cant picture it in my mind of how i would be passing by a girl all quiet and to myself and out of no where initiate enthusiastic conversation.

I just have a fear of approaching women while other strangers are right there. When i imagine myself approaching a passerbyer in the hall, it only seems really cheesy to me, nothing authentic. I feel like i didnt get my point out here, but lets see if yall can help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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ya. I never have approaching chicks sitting down, in fact thats how i did my 1st approach. I have a problem when yo are leaning against the wall kinda talkin with classmates and out of no where a hottie comes walking at like 50 mph, eyes set ind ead direction. How would you go about that, i just cant picture it. Thanks.
 
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