Approaching a grocery store checkout girl

[itishe]

Saw this girl I remember seeing from highschool working at a local grocery store. I think she was a grade below me, and we didn't know each other at all back in school.

I went through the other day and had some small chit-chat with her. It was mainly about her brother as I've been talking to him a bit lately as I'm looking to get a band together and he plays guitar.

I'd like to try to get her number next time I go through the store and she's working. I'm trying to think of the best way to do this without it coming across as weird. I'm thinking a coffee date would be best but I'm not sure best way to word it.

I can get numbers quite easily but the follow ups are where I usually don't succeed so I must not be creating enough interest in initial interactions.

 

[Serg897]

I find that the best way to learn to do this is simply to get yourself out there and try it. There is no substitute for experience.

Just casually say something like "we should hang out sometime - what's your number?"

If she flakes, or gives you any problems, dont worry...there are millions others.

Cheers

 

[ENIGMA16]

Did you project interest in her? My guess is no; it wouldn't "seem weird" if you projected interest and then went for the number. Obviously it will seem weird if you don't show any interest then go for the number, which you will fail to get. You need to show interest or you are not going to succeed.