"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Approaching a grocery store checkout girl

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Saw this girl I remember seeing from highschool working at a local grocery store. I think she was a grade below me, and we didn't know each other at all back in school.

I went through the other day and had some small chit-chat with her. It was mainly about her brother as I've been talking to him a bit lately as I'm looking to get a band together and he plays guitar.

I'd like to try to get her number next time I go through the store and she's working. I'm trying to think of the best way to do this without it coming across as weird. I'm thinking a coffee date would be best but I'm not sure best way to word it.

I can get numbers quite easily but the follow ups are where I usually don't succeed so I must not be creating enough interest in initial interactions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I find that the best way to learn to do this is simply to get yourself out there and try it. There is no substitute for experience.

Just casually say something like "we should hang out sometime - what's your number?"

If she flakes, or gives you any problems, dont worry...there are millions others.

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Did you project interest in her? My guess is no; it wouldn't "seem weird" if you projected interest and then went for the number. Obviously it will seem weird if you don't show any interest then go for the number, which you will fail to get. You need to show interest or you are not going to succeed.
 
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