Approaching a girl in front of her friend

[SmoothSmooth]

My experience is that it is never a good idea to cold approach a ‘two set’, unless they open you first or the situation makes it practically unavoidable/completely socially appropriate for other reasons.

You should only ever seduce a girl if you can talk to her one-to-one (it also creates a more impressionable/memorable moment):

By approaching her when she is with a friend:
A) you have over validated the girl who you want to pickup by overtly ranking her as more attractive than her friend.
B) main point - women are overly concerned about their appearance in front of others. She would be more afraid of her friend judging her, or hurting her friends feelings than making it work with you.
C) people want what they can’t have - the friend who you didn’t pickup will probably find you more attractive than the one you go for.
D) even if she likes you, the friend will likely talk her out of it afterwards. such is human nature

*caveat: this is for high smv women 7.5+

 

[Velasco]

My experience is that it is never a good idea to approach a ‘two set

Lol

 

[2Rocky]

If the assertion contains "Always/Never" it is most often wrong....


Personally I like approaching girls who have proven they know how to make friends....

 

[Mike32ct]

While I completely agree that it’s not ideal, sometimes it’s an interesting dynamic. With a two-set, one chick might be cold as ice to you, and the other might be quite friendly.

This can mean one of two things.

(1) The friendly one is attracted to you, and the cold one isn’t.

(2) Or, the “pissed off” one is single and not attracted, and the friendly one is already taken.

Assuming it’s the first scenario, you can keep taking to the friendly one and give minimal attention to the cold one. The cold one (who probably hates you lol) might suck it up and be polite for a while out of respect for her friend. And you might have enough time to number close the friendly one before it’s over.

TLDR: I’ve never met a two-set where they were both friendly/receptive.

 

[SW15]

Two sets are more challenging for the man rolling solo. Two sets are easily approachable if you have a wing.

I have approached two sets at bars when rolling solo. If you look good, that's the most important element. You can entertain one and number close but isolating is going to be tough for getting the same night lay.

Two sets are less common in non-bar approaching, which is one of the big reasons to do non-bar approaching. Isolation is already built into it for the most part. I've seen two sets on walking/hiking paths before and those women are more difficult to approach.

 

[LucianoM]

My experience is that it is never a good idea to cold approach a ‘two set’, unless they open you first or the situation makes it practically unavoidable/completely socially appropriate for other reasons.

You should only ever seduce a girl if you can talk to her one-to-one (it also creates a more impressionable/memorable moment):

By approaching her when she is with a friend:
A) you have over validated the girl who you want to pickup by overtly ranking her as more attractive than her friend.
B) main point - women are overly concerned about their appearance in front of others. She would be more afraid of her friend judging her, or hurting her friends feelings than making it work with you.
C) people want what they can’t have - the friend who you didn’t pickup will probably find you more attractive than the one you go for.
D) even if she likes you, the friend will likely talk her out of it afterwards. such is human nature

*caveat: this is for high smv women 7.5+

This post is a classic example of what happens when guys read too much "redpill" articles and watch too many "manosphere" videos on youtube. Turns ordinary normal guys into complete retards.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The funny thing is girls (particularly if they have a wing), do approach a guy with his friends.

 

[zekko]

Two sets are more challenging for the man rolling solo. Two sets are easily approachable if you have a wing.

I'm thinking the OP is talking about approaching solo. It would only be natural for two guys to approach a pair of girls.

 

[Grounded eagle]

I once approached the hottest girl on campus while she was with one of her friends. I simply said,”Can I borrow her?”Her friend giggled,left,and it ended up being one of my best ever sets.

 

[bat soup]

My experience is that it is never a good idea to cold approach a ‘two set’, unless they open you first or the situation makes it practically unavoidable/completely socially appropriate for other reasons.

You should only ever seduce a girl if you can talk to her one-to-one (it also creates a more impressionable/memorable moment):

By approaching her when she is with a friend:
A) you have over validated the girl who you want to pickup by overtly ranking her as more attractive than her friend.
B) main point - women are overly concerned about their appearance in front of others. She would be more afraid of her friend judging her, or hurting her friends feelings than making it work with you.
C) people want what they can’t have - the friend who you didn’t pickup will probably find you more attractive than the one you go for.
D) even if she likes you, the friend will likely talk her out of it afterwards. such is human nature

*caveat: this is for high smv women 7.5+

No, I disagree. Approach if you want to and if she looks friendly. If she gets stroppy, simply turn your back on her and walk away.