Approaching a chick in class

[Wiesman44]

Now I'm in this auditorium style class, and this hb8 always sits on the corner in the same row as me and 5 of my good friends. I managed to talk to her once about an assigment, and exchanged some other info, no C & f or anything.

Her friend usually sits next to her so I don't usually go sit down next to her. We've exchanged EC, so there might be an IL there, but i dont really care, either way i'm going to approach her.

My dilemma is, since I dont really get to talk to her in class, do u guys think I should approach her after class while she's walking out? Well, I know I should, but i'll prolly only get like 30 seconds of talking in, maybe more. I dont think thats enough for a number close, do u ?

I dont mean to come off as AFC, b/c I know how to act, what to do, whatnot. Just a little uneasy if a few seconds of chatting, and then getting the number is too quick ?

I could force it and sit in her friends seat and talk to her. That would be teh Dj thing to do I suppose. but then there's my afc friends wondering wtf im doing, b/c after class starts, i'm not going to be talking to her as much, so its seems almost like a waste to do it.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

you are worying aobut it to much, if it was a guy you wanted to talk to you would not even care you would just do it. You have to be indiffrent to it, a real DJ would not care who they approch, thye would look at it the same way, remember you wouldnt mind a girl going and talking to you, so why would she mind you talking to her!

hope iv been a help

 

[Wiesman44]

I didnt phrase it correctly. i dont mind talking to her, its just that her friend sits there whenever the friend makes it to class. SO i was thinking about approaching after class. the only thing is, i'd have like a minute or so to # close, which IMO, is too short. don't u all agree ? i guess i might have to take your advice and just sit w/ her and talk.

 

[^_^]

I'd just sit next to her and start up a conversation...30 seconds can be kinda :-/.

Possibly, if you think you can work your magic enough in 30 seconds, you can do the chat after class then sit next to her the next time in class.

Maybe someone has better ideas? I think the approach in class is a lot easier than outside.

 

[gm8384]

Well, one option if you can only talk for 30 seconds is to do it and then take the next oportunity to get her number.

Can't you walk somewhere after class with her? I walk and talk to girls after class all the time. Just ask what way is she headed.

Remember that there is no such thing as the perfect time. It might happen that your only chance to approach her is when she is with her friend, so be confident and don't let it phase you if her friend is with her.

There is no such thing as the perfect time.

 

[Alen-Delon]

forget the friend. just approach and say something along these lines: hi how are you blah blah i would really like to get to know you, perhaps we could exchange phone numbers. just make up what you want to say.

P.S it will show how confident you are. its a turn on

peace

 

[bossdog]

Just go talk to her the first chance you get. Make her laugh. She will prolly be with her firend so address the group not just her. Then wink at her touch her or somethin to let her know u feelin her.

Your thinking about it to much though. Your building her up in your mind to be bigger then what she is. She already has more value then you or else you would have talked to her already.