"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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approaches on youtube?

Deadly_Assassin

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I just came across like a million videos on approaching women, well not a million, but you get the point, on youtube. I think some of them are great!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Was one of them called 2girls1cup? LOL.... *shudders* then *pukes*

Seriously I wish I had highspeed internet so I could watch some of them..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EricInTheHouse said:
Was one of them called 2girls1cup? LOL.... *shudders* then *pukes*

Seriously I wish I had highspeed internet so I could watch some of them..
That's some sick stuff.
 

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You know youtube isn't really good for watching approaches because you never know if they are staged...what I have found helpful on youtube is videos showing body language...its a lot easier to watch someone show you what good/bad body language is than to read about it. Just a thought...
 
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