Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ok i know we aren't supposed to dip our ink in the company (pen? oil? i forgot hahaha) anyway yeah but there was this new girl at work today. she was about a 7 in my eyes with a bangin ass body. i waited till the right opportunity and boom *back up was needed in teh shoes dept* so i went over and i TRIED (lol) to introduce myself but she cut me off and said to find that shoe for a customer...i was like wtf and gave a sarcastic remark or two (ok alot calling her master and generally being an ass*hole b/c she was being a *****) about her being bossy...she was acting all *****y about it (ice queen) and when i told a coworker about this she was like it was b/c she wasn't interested..so i was like ok its cool then...

so i just went up to her without even bothering to check for the shoe and told her we don't have it...and then i left and went back to my apartment....but then i was called back by my coworker b/c they needed a spanish speaker so i went back and helped the girl and my other coworker said she had to go on break so the manager said to stay...(and my coworker knew i wanted to get to know this girl....but my interest fell when she appeared uninterested) i talked to her for a bit and she seemed liked she tried to kid aorund with mme but i didn't kid as much as i normally would....

she seemed to have trouble taking off an alarm from the shoe and i tried to help her and she said "dude im no rookie" so i just looked at her and said eeeexxxxxxxcuseeeeeeee me your highness.....but she didn't say anything nor smile...then when she asked where a pair of pants were i was like "oh i thought u weren't a rookie but then followed up where they were at.......after that i left b/c another manager came up and took over so i cleaned up the floor then left...ran into her again and said nice meeting u and left....my question is: how else could i have handled the situation?

is there anyway i could have handled the situation differently? the last time i handled this type of girll well b/c we were in class and i saw her more often so i kept clowning her about being stuck up...she seemedt o like it b/c we ended up messing around later in the semester...and again during christmas but this time nutin happened (she was only 16 or 17).....but yeah any advice would be appreciated so that next time i can better handle her....ill put her on the back burner for now....won't jock her but won't erase her completely i think she might have been testing me (and i failed miserably i know) wat can i do about a girl testing me like this? how can i tell when she is testing me?

anyway thanks for the help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My heart is composed of a black stone (like onyx) so if a girl tries to get cold with me, i can turn icier then the eyes of a cold blooded killer. fight fire with fire.

but in reality i just shrug it off put a ****y smirk on my face and go about my business.
 
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thanks for the response...
so did i rise to the challenge or go out like a punk?
 

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u shouldn't let it get to u, people act like b*tches sometimes (or all the time :rolleyes: )
 

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Originally posted by la-migra-is-after-me
thanks for the response...
so did i rise to the challenge or go out like a punk?
it really depends. Do you feel like a punk?




I would have simply ignored her, did what had to be done and disapeared.


Maybe you came off a bit try hard with all the sarcastic comments.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man - she was trying to work - thats what you do at WORK!

LOL yes that's true.....i don't really give a f*uck about her anyway....but thanks for the advice
 
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UPDATE!!!!!!! *sigh of relief*

thanks all those who posted and helped me with that girl.....well the good news: it turns out she is bitter over some s*hit...my coworker was talking to her and it turns out she moved up here b/c her b/f up and said one day that he wants to break up with her. she said that she hates me and that every time she hears about a man dying a smile is brought to her face....OUCH!! dam im glad i didn't pursue her anymore...lol but thanks for your resposes..
 
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