Ok, I was with my a friend of mien at school today. We where talking about girls as usual. A pair of really cute babes was just standing there chatting about god knows what. I wanted to get my friend into being a little more confidence so id decided to walk right up to these girls and try to get some good vibes/numbers.
I get pysched and cleans myself of fear, here goes
Me: [smilies] hay, its you, how’s it going?
HB8: [surprised smilie] uh fine………………[pause]
Me: we had class together
HB8: [pause] [surprised smilie] ………
Me: you don’t remember me do you?
Hb8: [smilie] nope, sorry
Me: we had class together, sociology?
Hb8: sociology no, I don’t think so
Me: really?
Hb8: [smilies] no we never took that in this school
ME: oh man, I feel kind of dumb. Wow, you really look like this girl though
Hb8: [smilies] oh really?
Me: [acting serious] yea, it’s the brown hair, but I guess a lot of girls here have that hair [NEG[
Hb8 and her friend: [laughs] [still smilies] wow, way to make us feel special
Me: oh man, I’m sorry again, I had no idea I was supposed ot make you feel special (I feel like my game is doing good, they’re still smiling, and I’m beign serious) I feel like such a idiot [laughs]
Hb8: [carrign smilie] aww, don’t feel like that, I’m sorry
Me: hay don’t worry about it
Pause, kind of awkward. I chocked up ehre, ran out of material to say. Had to go somewhere so I pressed for a date.
ME: hay listen, I feel kind of dumb about bothering you like this so how do you feel if we go out and I apologize right.
Hb8: [dead serious, no smilie] I don’t think ym boyfriend would like that
ME: [smiles] aww that’s ok he can come too but I’m not paying for him [joke]
Hb8: [getting a little annoyed] uhh noo
ME: well, I’m sorry to have bother you ladies, have a nice day
Closed
We;;, there you go. I think I simply pressed for a date too soon. My problem was that I ran out of material after saying “hay don’t worry about it”. what do you guys think I should of said. I need to establish rapport so she feels safe around me, then I can press for a date or a number.
I get pysched and cleans myself of fear, here goes
Me: [smilies] hay, its you, how’s it going?
HB8: [surprised smilie] uh fine………………[pause]
Me: we had class together
HB8: [pause] [surprised smilie] ………
Me: you don’t remember me do you?
Hb8: [smilie] nope, sorry
Me: we had class together, sociology?
Hb8: sociology no, I don’t think so
Me: really?
Hb8: [smilies] no we never took that in this school
ME: oh man, I feel kind of dumb. Wow, you really look like this girl though
Hb8: [smilies] oh really?
Me: [acting serious] yea, it’s the brown hair, but I guess a lot of girls here have that hair [NEG[
Hb8 and her friend: [laughs] [still smilies] wow, way to make us feel special
Me: oh man, I’m sorry again, I had no idea I was supposed ot make you feel special (I feel like my game is doing good, they’re still smiling, and I’m beign serious) I feel like such a idiot [laughs]
Hb8: [carrign smilie] aww, don’t feel like that, I’m sorry
Me: hay don’t worry about it
Pause, kind of awkward. I chocked up ehre, ran out of material to say. Had to go somewhere so I pressed for a date.
ME: hay listen, I feel kind of dumb about bothering you like this so how do you feel if we go out and I apologize right.
Hb8: [dead serious, no smilie] I don’t think ym boyfriend would like that
ME: [smiles] aww that’s ok he can come too but I’m not paying for him [joke]
Hb8: [getting a little annoyed] uhh noo
ME: well, I’m sorry to have bother you ladies, have a nice day
Closed
We;;, there you go. I think I simply pressed for a date too soon. My problem was that I ran out of material after saying “hay don’t worry about it”. what do you guys think I should of said. I need to establish rapport so she feels safe around me, then I can press for a date or a number.