Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It's important to flip the script that you find yourself in. If you just go by the book, (approach, ask for number), you're likely going to get shot down because you're just like every other shlub she rebuffs every single day.
We need to think more in strategic terms and think in terms of planting seeds. leverage time to demonstrate to her that you don't need her approval, that you're interesting and mysterious, and wait for the tipping point where she starts pursuing you. This takes the indirect form of body language and vocal infection "inviting" you into her world. It's sort of like a female animal "presenting" to a male. "Come and take me",
At that point, it's a 100% sure thing that she'll make it easy for you to contact her. Women thrive on the cat and mouse game, the wondering if you like her or not. To get to that point, you need to massage the situation into her thinking about you when you're gone. Once she's thinking about you, she starts to feel that she "must" like you, after all, she finds herself thinking about you.
You plant the seeds of interest, and she does her own watering and cultivating apart from you, in her own mind.
So how is this accomplished? Simply by being light and fun with her, with a dash of mystery and even a dash of negativity (e.g. your concern about something bad going on in the news). This puts her on her beloved emotional roller coaster. It should be 85% fun and lightheartedness and 15% seriousness. You should end any serious subject on a light note.
It's possible to overdo it and extend this phase for too long, so you need to learn to read the signs that she's invested in you, and at that time, go in for the kill (propose a date or get her number). The bottom line is that she herself will tell you indirectly that she's ready.
The result: Zero rejection. I believe that women have an innate admiration for a man who sneaks in under her radar and seduces her unawares.
We need to think more in strategic terms and think in terms of planting seeds. leverage time to demonstrate to her that you don't need her approval, that you're interesting and mysterious, and wait for the tipping point where she starts pursuing you. This takes the indirect form of body language and vocal infection "inviting" you into her world. It's sort of like a female animal "presenting" to a male. "Come and take me",
At that point, it's a 100% sure thing that she'll make it easy for you to contact her. Women thrive on the cat and mouse game, the wondering if you like her or not. To get to that point, you need to massage the situation into her thinking about you when you're gone. Once she's thinking about you, she starts to feel that she "must" like you, after all, she finds herself thinking about you.
You plant the seeds of interest, and she does her own watering and cultivating apart from you, in her own mind.
So how is this accomplished? Simply by being light and fun with her, with a dash of mystery and even a dash of negativity (e.g. your concern about something bad going on in the news). This puts her on her beloved emotional roller coaster. It should be 85% fun and lightheartedness and 15% seriousness. You should end any serious subject on a light note.
It's possible to overdo it and extend this phase for too long, so you need to learn to read the signs that she's invested in you, and at that time, go in for the kill (propose a date or get her number). The bottom line is that she herself will tell you indirectly that she's ready.
The result: Zero rejection. I believe that women have an innate admiration for a man who sneaks in under her radar and seduces her unawares.
