"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It was mentioned in a thread here that someone asked a friend to take some money off him and not give it back until he approached a certain amount of women.
I have a real fear of approaches and chickening out is becoming common for me! I was thinking of doing something similar. Does anyone have a link to the story/ article?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sounds a gd idea!
 
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Instead, try to figure out WHY you are afraid and at what point you decided that women are SO scary that you need to withhold money from yourself as an incentive to talk to her. That'd be more effective.
 
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If it motivates you, I say go for it.
 
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Originally posted by deepraj
It was mentioned in a thread here that someone asked a friend to take some money off him and not give it back until he approached a certain amount of women.
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It sounds like you know the idea, why do you need the article? Go out and do it already...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was just wondering if there was a thread and the results. I am not sure about the approaches to use.
I think I am afraid cause its something I have never done before. I know as soon as I get start doing it it will get easier but I need a push to get the ball rolling. I am great at reading through the bootcamp reports and getting all enthusiatic but when it comes down to it I ***** out.
The situation this weekend should be a good start for a new starter like me. Mainly because its a different town, we are going down to Bournmouth for a mates birthday. My mates are with me I can actually laugh about the rejections and in doing this not care about them. I will be drinking, enough said! So the wager is just a final incentive.
The approaches I was thinking about was opinion openers as we are from out of town I can ask any good places to go. I was also thinking of using the who lies more opener maybe followed up with some sperm war facts or cheating ex's stuff.
The actual bet I was hoping to do was 10 eye contacts and 5 approaches. I will post the results here.

Deep
 
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