"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approach line I thought of...

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While sharing prolonged eye-contact with an attractive female and your gut is telling you something is up, you go ahead and wink something like this:

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw4n42Zzoj1r20idto1_250.gif

If the reaction is positive, you approach playfully and ask - Are my seduction techniques working?

If she's giggling or something you know the game is on. If she says no you go - WHAAAAAAT?! No way. In the manual it's said it never fails......................................................................Just kidding, I don't need any manuals, I rely excusively on my charm. :)

And then improvise. What do you think? :rock:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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I don't think you should mention manuals when picking up women, even in jest.
 

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zekko said:
I don't think you should mention manuals when picking up women, even in jest.
Take into consideration the op's age - I think this opener, if it matches yours style, could work very well.
I sure think I could pull this one out, because it pretty much represents the way I am; unserious and funny.
 

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Would never recommend mentioning "manuals", "seduction techniques" or such.

These hoes are constantly on their toes to find out where my new persona jumped out from. Its funny how he went from zero to hero almost overnight!

Mentioning such would make 'em go "Eureka! Got ya!" on me.[Yes, I think I'm that suddenly sosuave to warrant investigations].

If you are too, then simply stay away from mentioning such only if you just wanna do so for the fun of it, then no harm done.

With that being said, if its somewhere you don't have the "player" reputation yet, then the line could be just fine.
 

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Although the wink is nothing new, i like the comment afterwards.
You guys are reading too much into the words. Remember its not what you say but how you act.

If your inner game is good and you have that light charm and humor when initiating then this is great. Also this is a good way to weed out the interested from the wastes of time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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