Thanks for the encouragement Justman. Ok Black, I'll make sure I don't count those again. However, for me, I think it's important, because getting to the level where girls are approaching me is progress. As for counting a 2set as 2, nah...i'll count it as 1.
Field Report: Chickenlegs and wospers hit downtown, Thursday night
Wospers is a guy I met here in the Wingman forum. We called each other and decided to meet up somewhere. He grabbed dinner at home, I chose to eat downtown.
Basically, on Thursday nights, downtown here is packed for weekly 'bazaar' or community food market type event. There's music, dancing, and TONS of people (lots of tourists).
So, anyway, I got downtown around 7:45pm. I wandered the crowded streets a bit to just feel it out...such a cool atmosphere, I love it. I hadn't been to farmers in a while. After wandering for 10-15 min, I grabbed a sandwich from one of the side bbq grills. While I was in line, I started talking to the guy in front of me. Then I just overheard the 2 girls and a guy behind me talking, so I started talking to them too. One of the girls commented on how she has the same shoes as me (nike cortez), and we briefly joked about some stuff.
I walked off, eating my sandwich. Soon after I spotted wosper and his friend, who I'll refer to as MC. We greeted each other, and just started walking around. They mentioned wanting to go see the new Superman movie...I was like sure, let's go.
Of course, we did have the sarging agenda too. I was in a sarging mood anyway, as I am usually. We went to get tickets at the theatre. Wosper joked around with the girl behind the counter...gave her exact amount and said "you can keep the change," she laughed. Then, as we were headed upstairs, I spotted a cute girl sitting by herself on a bench. I was like, "hey, look man, there's hot one." Wospers was like, "so what's the opener?" ...and I was like, "hi." Neither of them would really go for it, so I was like "let's just go and come back later" As we got upstairs I got a phone call and said they should go ahead, I'll catch up later. I took the call, and as I ended it, I walked downstairs to approach that chick. I walked up to her...
Approach #26
Me: hey...how come you're sitting here all by yourself?
Her: (smiling) well, I'm waiting for my bf
Me: oh, really...cause I was gonna invite you to a movie later with my friends
Her: (smiling)
Me: well, you're pretty cute, I just had to tell you that
Her: (smiled and blushed, looking down) thanks...
Me: well, have a good one (walking away)
Her: thanks, bye
Then I went back upstairs into B&N bookstore to meet up with Wospers and MC. They went to the bathroom while I was grabbing a drink from Starbucks. They got back as it was getting ready...and wospers tried to open the chick behind the counter. It was actually a nice opener but didn't go as far I guess. He started a convo amongst us, asking why we thought this night was so great...and then once we had started talking/responding, he asked the chick's opinion.
I liked that. Kudos.
We had time to kill before the movie and decided to wander a bit. Then, I spotted this girl that was familiar (I'd actually approached her a while back). I was like to Wospers and MC, "hey, I know that girl..."
Approach #27
Me: hey...I know you...
Her: yeah, I know you too
Me: yeah, your name is <name>
Her: wait...how do you know my name but I don't remember where I know you from?
(and then we continued this back and forth until she remembered when I approached her once by the bus stop)
LOL. Back then I got her number and never called her, even though I'd promised to.
Her: oh ...yeah, that's where we met, I remember...you have a good memory
Me: yeah, I do
Her: well, this is my friend <friend>
Me: hi, how's it goin (shook hands with her friend)
Then the 5 of us just talked about Starbucks and random stuff about being here and whatnot. I was like,
Me: hey, you should come see Superman with us
Her: well,
Me: yeah, I don't think it's sold out yet
Her: well I don't know..
Then more talk about who they were there with, etc. I think me and the first girl were talking more then anyone else. My bad on not engaging the whole group. When we were parting, Girl1 was like,
Her: yeah, you should call me, you should still have my number
Me: LOL, I know, I never called you, I deleted your number
Her: really, you deleted it? nah..
HB2: oooohhh, lol
Me: yeah...I just ya know, but hey...give it to me again and I promise I'll call you this time
Her: that's okay, nah... <I think she felt sort of dissed>
(I pulled my phone out of my pocket and offered it to her)
Her: no, really, that's okay
Me: ...?
Her: it's okay, ya know?
Me: oh i see how it is (joking with her)
Me: ouch (as I was walking away), I feel hurt, (put my hand to my chest)...I'm gonna go cry now
Her: no really, i'm saying it's ok
I was just messing around with her but I don't know if she took it seriously or not. Whatever, I had a really good laugh. It was hilarious.
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So after this we walked a bit more. It was tough finding lone girls to approach. Especially ones sitting around, because most people were moving around. I think we got there kind of late. Finally we got back to the theatre to see the movie. We walked in and then MC went to use the bathroom, and Wospers walked back out for a smoke.
And then out of the corner of my eye, I caught the glance of a cute chick I'd seen before on the bus. This chick I had really wanted to approach before but just hadn't because she was listening to her iPod. She saw me looking at her (about 15ft away). I smiled and she smiled. It was kind of neat because we'd never talked, yet from several feet away just making eye contact felt like we knew each other. She worked there, behind the counter.
Approach #28
Me: hi (smiling)
Her: hi (smiling)
Me: do you go to <school> school?
Her: yeah
Me: yeah, because I think I've seen you on the bus
Her: yeah, I've seen you on the bus too the other day
Me: yeah...well, I'm going to see Superman have you seen it?
Her: no (and said something else I forget)
Me: yeah, I heard it was good ...hey, what's your name?
Her: <name>
Me: <name>? cool. (extended my hand and shook hers) my name is c-legs
Her: c-?
Me: c-legs
Her: c-le..?
Me: c-legs...
Her: c-legs?
Me: yeah...okay, well, let me get some sour patch kids
(paid the other guy behind the counter...seems like she was just standing there)
Me: well, I guess I'll probably run into you on the bus or something
Her: yeah, it was nice meeting you
We were both smiling wide the whole time. There's 3 possibilities. She could have been nervous, or overly friendly because she works there, or maybe she likes me. I'm going to assume the third possibility and go with that. (also because she cared to really pronounce my name right)
Well, in closing, it was a nice night out. I really had a great time. I'm actually a little surprised because I was quite tired today, but just got energized being there. I think it has a lot to do with my visualizing lately on what I want the outcome of events to be. I also wanted to see Wospers to do some more approaches, but he told me it was his very first time ever to be sarging, so I think it was actually great if it was his first time. We'll definitely be hitting the streets again next week or so, and we'll do it big.
