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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

diablo

Master Don Juan

Mar 13, 2005

Originally posted by Bussey
How about you mods stop being such jackasses?

****, people are giving you "Suggestions and Feedback" like you want!

IF you don't want feedback close the ****ing forum! It's one thing saying "It's been said" its another to insult someone.

Just cuz your tag says "Moderator" doesnt mean it spells "Bettertheneveryone".

Actually all I see is "Rat".

Very mature.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.