"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YoungSir4sho

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Whas good every1. Yea im YoungSir and LIL New on here but been readin this forum for a couple of months. Jus turned 23 yesterday and Live in Jamaica Queenz NYC ALL DAY na mean.IM black light skin tho like Will smith n got waves n kinda skinny. Newayz I work n play ball n i've seen alot of approach Journals and alot of ppl givin up or takin 2 years to do like 15 approaches.....LMAO. So its time for all of us to step their game up.

I just broke up wit my girl like a month n half ago n eva since her i been losin sum of my game but now im bringin it bac. SO my goals is to get my confidence all da way up again. My swagger is already good since I live in NYC but i want it to b betta.


My Ultimate Goal in life is to make it to the NBA since im bout to play ball fo college. But another Ultimate Personal goal of mines is to have the most confidence in life not only in girls but in life in general.

I want to be able to go up to any girl/girls at a time n jus talk n get the number n do more then that. So my goal for this month is to do 300 approaches by sept 28. Actual talkin n im doin the Direct Game.



I started today, did one b4 I went to work. At a store i brought a snapple den afta I brought it i asked the girl at the cashier.

YoungSir: Let me ask u a ?

Her: Looks at me

YoungSir: Are u single

Her: No, then she asks me Y

YoungSir: Wanted to kno if i could get to kno u betta

Her: O, U must b lookin then rite

YoungSir: Yea

Her: Well hope dat goes good fo u, lata


All of dat took like 1 min at da most



Now b4 all of dat happened, I was alil mad cuz when i took da train n got off at 42ndstreet in manhattan, walkin thru da tunnel I saw dis good lookin girl n i didnt say nuttin. ALso WHen i was takin the numba 1 train, anotha girl came in n she was satandin right in front of me while i was sittin down but i still didnt say nothin.

I was really gettin beatin my self up in dat mentally, luckily i redemmed myself when i talked to dat girl in the store even if it wasnt a great outcome but who cares.



Then afta work I wanted to talk to at least 20 girls today in da mall. SO i went but guess wat happened. SInce i was by myself, i knew it was gonna b hard but dam. I felt like every1 was lookin at me, left n right there was good lookin girls like always since I live in Queens NYC n theres always good lookin girls in NEw York.

So Afta i felt mad nerous n pressure I jus left, walked my a55 home which took like a 35mn walk cuz i didnt feel like i should reward myself by takin da train home which wouldve been like a 10min ride bac home lol.


SO Newayz, U gonna b seein alot from me on now on wit my FR's. Goal is to have 100 approaches weekly till sept 28. Y sept 28?? Cuz I have a business trip on sept 28 n goin to virgina fo 3days, which is a hotel down there so theres gonna b mad girls ova there. So i wanna b ready n hopefully get sumthin poppin ova at da hotel ova there.

Comments n stuff is appreciated na mean. I will Update this basically everyday if i have the time YA DIG. Holla Early
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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YoungSir4sho

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Also Im Not A Rookie In Da Game. B4 This Site, I Had More Den 25 Girls, But Prolly Over Half Of Them Wsa Due From Online. Yes I've Been Basically The Online Dating King Since I Was 13. Bac Then I Was Usin Aol In Da Chat Rooms To Get Numbers N See, Lata On Usin Myspace N Blackplanet,crushspot. So Yea, Now Dat Im 23 Im Doin Away Wit Sendin Like 100 Messages Or More A Week Only To Get Like 20 Messages? Im Goin To Say This Bout Online, It Really Helps Ur Phone Game. For Begginers, If U Not Good At Da Phone Game. Then Online Is Fo U.

I Now Realize Tho Dat Its Betta To Talk Outside N It Wil B Less Work Den Wastin All Of My Time Online.

Also On A Side Note. I Kno A Few Might Laugh, I Jus Got In A Relationship Ovaseas From Myspace. So I Think I Need A Passport To Go Ova There, Nuttin Serious Tho Since I Jus Got Wit Her, Actually Its 2 But They Live In Diff Locations International. So If Any1 Kno Anythin Bout Da Passport Thing Den Let Me Kno Ya Dig. Holla Early
 

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You sound like a complete bag. Learn proper engrish frist thx.

Edit to add: how can you capitalize the first letter of every word? WTF?

Edit to add again: WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?
 

YoungSir4sho

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Its Called Havin My Ish On Caps Dats Y Every 1st Letter Is Like Dat. Lol B Ez Kid Iight. Dont Got Time Fo Lil Haters Online Like Ursefl Ya Dig. Holla Early
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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young Jock, are you trying to be akon? i can't understand a word that comming out of your mouth.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Young Joc? No Its Not Goin Down Lol. Newayz I'll Keep My Fr's In Here Posted Lata On Today Once I Do Some Na Mean. N Da Haters Can See Me Improve N Actually Approach While U Stay On Ur Pc Doin Nuttin But Talkin Mad Ish Lol Ya Dig. Holla Early
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Young Joc? No Its Not Goin Down Lol. Newayz I'll Keep My Fr's In Here Posted Lata On Today Once I Do Some Na Mean. N Da Haters Can See Me Improve N Actually Approach While U Stay On Ur Pc Doin Nuttin But Talkin Mad Ish Lol Ya Dig. Holla Early

Yung Joc, are you speaking in ebonicz? if you keep posting the way you're doing, people on here can't understand what you're writing, and can't offer their advices.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Hey, you caught my eye from over there and I wanted to meet you. I'm *name*" and offer your handshake before she has time to think about it.

MM
 

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Yea I Was Thinkin, If I Say R U Single Then Once They Say Yea. I Say Y U Single Fo Or U Was Waitin Fo Me All This Time Even Tho U Cant Handle Me N Then Laugh.

Should I Put My Hand Out N Then Do The Old School Way By Kissin It Or Wat? Holla Early
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I Was Thinkin, If I Say R U Single Then Once They Say Yea. I Say Y U Single Fo Or U Was Waitin Fo Me All This Time Even Tho U Cant Handle Me N Then Laugh.

Should I Put My Hand Out N Then Do The Old School Way By Kissin It Or Wat? Holla Early
Reminds me of Malibu's Most Wanted. :crackup:
Just do what feels normal.
Mad Manic said:
"Hey, you caught my eye from over there and I wanted to meet you. I'm *name*" and offer your handshake before she has time to think about it.
I Agree with Mad Manic.
 

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Lol Except I Got More Swagger, N Style Den Him N Im Black Lol. Newayz Imma Gonna Try Doin That Today Or Tom
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YoungSir4sho said:
Its Called Havin My Ish On Caps Dats Y Every 1st Letter Is Like Dat. Lol B Ez Kid Iight. Dont Got Time Fo Lil Haters Online Like Ursefl Ya Dig. Holla Early

lol wtf is this ****. What a retard you are.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol Retard Fo Havin Caps??? N Its Not Even All In Caps B Ez Man Lol. Get Da Hate Out Of This Thread. If Ppl Wanna Help Wit Advice Dats Good. If Not Den Dont Read N Comment. Simple As That Ya Dig
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Lol Except I Got More Swagger, N Style Den Him N Im Black Lol. Newayz Imma Gonna Try Doin That Today Or Tom
Just do whats congruent with who you are mate, what you say isn't too important. I DA using what I posted coz it's quite congruent with me.

MM
 

YoungSir4sho

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Havent been on here fo a min. Yea so im bac n today is when i Start it. IM actually gonna try or should i say will Talk to at least 15-25 girls today. See wat happens so lata on tonite I will post my FR's
 
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