"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approach is ADDICTING!

Snow Plowman

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My head is going crazy right now, I'm sitting here and my head is constantly saying "I want to go out, I want to go out, lets go have fun, lets go have fun."

I've come to the realization that this isn't scary, hard at all. This is almost too much fun. It's to the point of addiction now, I want to constantly go in field and do something. I'm in field and my head is constantly saying "Go, Go, Go, Go".

I also realized that I'm so delusional now. My balls is hanging low right now and I'm not having a care in the world.

That is no need to know what the perfect response is because anything will open. I've been saying the wildest things and opening. I don't care anymore, I'm doing this for fun. I am to the point where the girl's are thinking "WTF?"

There is no way anyone should be making this hard. Just jump in the set like if your doing stick ups in the wild wild west. Just go and open with everything, don't even think about anything. SPEAK SPEAK and SPEAK, the sh!t doesn't even have to make sense.

You're in your own reality do whatever you want, say whatever you want, and have a 100% belief that you will open.

This is all a game, have fun and play around with it. Open and act as if your a deaf guy. Go in super direct "Hey you're fuking hot I want to meet you". Go in with the intent of confusing the girl. While talking just get up and walk away and talk to someone else. Just play around and have fun. I bring the motherfukin party. I'm just adding the energy, giving value.

Don't take this game serious, don't even act serious around girls. There is nothing logical so don't even think logical. Your all over the place with the stuff your saying, its random and unpredictable. I'll be talking about tea and then talking about something sexual, and instantly talking about books, but wait I'm in love with her, actually no I hate her because her earring is gold. Don't be cautious like your walking on a minefield not wanting to get blown up. Be a delusional and random person, run through the minefield like its not even though. I don't even consider the girl a factor when I'm gaming, its almost like I'm just talking to myself.

Just go out and have fun. This is so much fun and I've become addicted. Everyday now I want to go out and just have some fun. If you don't have that passion and love for the game you won't get good. You have to be dedicated to this and stick to it. Even getting blown out and having rough days is fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It is actually very serious... Sargin is VERY ADDICTING.... i cant walk by a girl without saying atleast hello.... the rush....ohh the rush.... belive it or not, even after talking to thousands of girls, if I really like a girl, I will still get butterfly/nervos/adrenelin feeling... its like before a fight, no matter how many times you do it, you will still get that adrenelin...
 

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Agreed.

It's fun to meet new women and get into it with them. It's never the same, and the conversations are all over the place.

It's about laughing, having fun, and being carefree. It's great.
 
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Amen.
Macking is addicting, I get a rush of when talking to women, its most likely the energy that would otherwise be nervousness but now its a thrill more than a scare. I love going out into the feild, flirting with new and sexy women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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freakin' a right fellas :rockon:

I even had a buddy ask me the other day "You enjoy the thrill of the hunt wayyy too much, it's a hobby for you now isn't it? What are you going to do when you actually date long term and settle down with one of these chicks?"
 

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TruthHurts said:
It is actually very serious... Sargin is VERY ADDICTING.... i cant walk by a girl without saying atleast hello.... the rush....ohh the rush.... belive it or not, even after talking to thousands of girls, if I really like a girl, I will still get butterfly/nervos/adrenelin feeling... its like before a fight, no matter how many times you do it, you will still get that adrenelin...

Hahah, right on man!

One way I can tell when I'm actually really into a girl is when I get that rush during pickup or whatever. If the girl makes me a little nervous, I know im into her. If im not really, and im just PUing to be social or whatever, I dont get the rush.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Hahah, right on man!

One way I can tell when I'm actually really into a girl is when I get that rush during pickup or whatever. If the girl makes me a little nervous, I know im into her. If im not really, and im just PUing to be social or whatever, I dont get the rush.

Yeah..that rush is so good... its almost like an orgasm hahahha..
You have to be carefull with girls like that, and not become AFC :)
 
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