"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have been dressing extremely well lately (I am also pretty good looking) and I noticed a lot of women paying attention to me. Some of them will will hold eye contact and give this half smile without me having to do anything.

The problem is when I do approach them it is only marginally better than if I approached women randomly. An example is this girl blew me out completely at the mall when 1 minute ago she was staring at me intently. A couple of girls will even try to catch my eye but it is not leading to anything.

I thought that since they already gave me some sign of interest it should make things go more smoothly but it does not in reality. What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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trainee said:
I have been dressing extremely well lately (I am also pretty good looking) and I noticed a lot of women paying attention to me. Some of them will will hold eye contact and give this half smile without me having to do anything.QUOTE]
You are doing something, you're holding eye contact.

Just because a girl makes eye contact with you doesn't mean she's interested. She may just be testing her own sexual power ("will guys give me the eye?"). So she plays this little game. On the other hand, it doesn't mean she isn't interested, either.

As for how to fix it, I think you just need more practice. As you become more comfortable you'll be more smooth and you'll learn what works.
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My guess is you're coming off as needy when you approach them.

If you look awesome, but don't have DIRECTION in the conversation with the girl, why would she want to talk to you? Are you trying to chit-chat with her? Or are you going up, introducing yourself, and getting to the point of the conversation, which is probably something along the lines of "I was drawn to you because of _____ (whatever drew you to her), and I want to get to know you, either now or soon."

Kudos that you know enough about fashion to look good, but now you need to play the role of whatever you're dressing like.
 
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