"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Appetite Supression

Maurizio

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Hey there guys. Here's the situation:

As an elite competitive cyclist, from spring till fall I'm riding my bike about four hundred miles a week, and consuming about 6,000 calories a day just to maintain my weight. But during the winters, my training drops to about two hundred miles a week with three days of lifting.

In other words, I'm burning a lot less calories now. Problem is that I'm used to eating 5 - 6,000 calories a day, and my body feels hungry when I don't consume that much. As you can expect I'm gaining some weight...

I've tried drinking about 30 oz. of water before any meals I eat, but that doesn't seem to tame my appetite. My diet is also very low fat, reasonably high protein for an endurance athlete, and very high fiber. I'm wondering what I can do / take to help supress my appetite and lose weight besides becoming anorexic.

For your information: I'm 6'3" am now 177 lbs. and would ideally like to be 165 - 168. I am 17 years old.

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

- Maurizio
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That dedicated at 17. I salute you, bro. You cyclists are dedimacation kings. Lance Armstrong brings tears to my eyes whenever I think of him.

Up your water intake and fiber intake. Both have no calories and will fill you up. And eventually, your metabolism will slow down to meet a 4000 cal diet.
 

Maurizio

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Thanks. That's a good idea. You reminded me of this fiber drink (this orange gel like nasty crap) that I used to drink a while back. I stopped using it because I started having tons of diarhea, but perhaps I'll go on it again.

- Maurizio
 

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You've gotta go on a "cutting diet" like what bodybuilders do. Gradually consume fewer and fewer calories each week until you get down to the amount you want to stay at. Try to up the protein and lower the carb intake(especially high GI carbs). You might want to take glutamine so that you retain as much muscle mass as possible.
 

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Try some ephedrine and caffiene. Norephedrine would be better, but im not sure where to find it.

This stack will kill your appetite and also slow gastric emptying, making you feel full longer.

A fiber supplement is a good idea. Make sure you drink a lot of water with it to get the full benefits. Fiber slows gastric emptying and also keeps blood sugar in check. Keeping blood sugar in check helps with the cravings.

Hope this helps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fats are very slow to leave the stomach, which when empty causes those appetite feelings. Just add a small amount of "good" fat to your meal might help. For instance, I find taking just a teaspoon of flaxseed oil helps me feel more satisfied after eating a less caloric dense meal.

Of course, fat is an energy source and is very important to help maintain the body, but the calories from it can add up fast.
 
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