“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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apperances and rateing sites, Gauge yourself?

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We can all sit here and rate women we talk about or see, but women never really do the same thing unless its in private or to each other about which "cute" guy they saw.

anyways posting pictures on rateing sites, i've done a search and i did see a lot of "hotornot" come up, so it has been discussed but rateins vary from site to site.

needless to say can you actually gauge your attraction level from these things is it accurate? can they be accurate, i find that i normally never go passed an 8 and i'm always bounceing in the range of 7.5 - 8.5 in between rateings sites.

picture of me (its a crappy webcam picture, with a goofy pose i took for a friend)

http://images.thedilly.com/users/2003/12/24/christz/photos/chrisnewhair.jpg

but then again i've been told i'm more attractive in person than my pics let off to be by pretty much everybody, i get lots of looks from attractive girls AND i also manage to pull ONLY HB8's and 9's my track record proovs it.

but when i see my low rateing on some of these sites, i get kinda self concious. You think its all in my head?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hotornot is a lame site with geeks and nerds clicking "1" on everyone :rolleyes:

I use to get 8 now with a clear digital camera picture I get like 6 :mad: :p
 
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Originally posted by tom121
hotornot is a lame site with geeks and nerds clicking "1" on everyone :rolleyes:
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It's funny how everybody says this. How do you know that's what happens? I mean really, how do you know?

Anyways, Hot or Not's ratings are calculated on a scale in relation to everyone who posts their pic...Meaning people who vote "1" for everbody don't actually affect anyone's score.
 
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Originally posted by Interpol
It's funny how everybody says this. How do you know that's what happens? I mean really, how do you know?
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BECAUSE I DO IT!!!! :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pictures dont mean sh1t.

People can look completely different in real life compared to a pic. For reals.
 
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No wonder... that explains a lot.

You all are probably the reason my rating on hotornot.com is a "Holy Sh*t You're Ugly". I thought they only gave out numbers, but I guess I am special.
 
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check this out...not to be ****y, but i know im hot stuff....i am only a 7.5...........most of my ratings are 1's, it gives you a histogram of what numbers people have clicked for you. next is 5, the second most picked, so...yeah its worthless
 
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I was a 10 before a gained 40 kilos and grew a third arm out of my a$$. hotornot still gives me a 10, though. Nerds like third arms.

Anyway, I give all guys who show pictures of their abs 1s because I think it's dumb. As much as you think girls are attracted to that...well we are, but your ego is way too big. I guess we're also attracted to that. Nevermind.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, it's good to see most of you idiots read my post...Oh wait...

It doesn't matter if people vote a 1 for everybody because your rating is a PERCENTILE, not an average. If you ever took a standardized test, and made an actual attempt to understand your score, you would understand this concept.
 
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Really? Where on earth did you find that out?
 
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Originally posted by MsThang
I was a 10 before a gained 40 kilos and grew a third arm out of my a$$. hotornot still gives me a 10, though. Nerds like third arms.

Anyway, I give all guys who show pictures of their abs 1s because I think it's dumb. As much as you think girls are attracted to that...well we are, but your ego is way too big. I guess we're also attracted to that. Nevermind.
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I don't even rate pictures. I'm too busy playing Final Fantasy XI online and offending dumb people and girly men on Yahoo to rate pictures.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I don't even rate pictures. I'm too busy playing Final Fantasy XI online and offending dumb people and girly men on Yahoo to rate pictures.
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Oh, I love you :) You're right, though, I haven't been on one of those sites since I was about 17.
 
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Anyway, I give all guys who show pictures of their abs 1s because I think it's dumb. As much as you think girls are attracted to that...well we are, but your ego is way too big. I guess we're also attracted to that. Nevermind
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so you're the reason I went down to a 9.7, anyway guilty as charged:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v299/mishob/egomaniacovermatter.jpg

as for the guys that go around voting 1 on other guys, why are you sitting at home and looking at pictures of other guys? may wanna get out of the appt sometime, or the closet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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also, I tested several websites with this pic, my rating was highest on hotornot.com, followed by wouldyouhitthis.com, followed by facethejury.com.

SInce hotornot is the only one that doesn't show a profile next to a pic, I can assume the lower scores on other websites are because some girls found my profile offensive. Tho I did get a marriage proposal on FTJ, internet girls are f'ed up heh.
 
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