"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Appearances: Racial Differences and Monocles.

AsianAwesomeness

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So hey. I found this forum about a week ago and have been reading up on the DJ Bible, and have come to the conclusion that I am an AFC.

Well, good thing I found this website right? There is just one thing that has peaked my curiosity. I understand that looks do matter somewhat, but there are two things that I am not exactly sure of.

First off, I would like to mention that I do not mean to spark any kind of racial disagreement. Also, I am from Australia(woohoo ._.)

Ok, so from my name you can tell that I am Asian. I also wear glasses.
tl;dr Does being of ASIAN descent and wearing GLASSES effect my chances with " The hot babes"?

Yeah also I'm in high school so yeah. Help me out?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just search 'asian' or whatever here and you'll find endless threads. If anything, just outwit the racial stereotype by being built, witty, sporty, and popular. Just be a great force of positive energy and you'll be the 'cool asian kid'.
 

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eh, looks matter a little it is much more about how you conduct yourself and feel about yourself. (health though does matter)

Put it this way I have an ugly friend, short, face covered in acne, and has the general consensus that he's ugly(he's fit, not ripped just fit) he has sex semi-regularly with hot girls.

and to your question: what if the answer was yes, it's not but what if it was? Would you give up on trying to get hotter girls? probably not. It would just be another excuse not to progress and push yourself. So what do you gain from asking this question? Nothing, but to answer it, it doesn't matter. If it isn't a positive thought or improves you with women why do you need it?

(Stolen argument from recent Julian post) I know, i just love these guys.
 

jericg

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Im asian. I wear glasses. I dont feel good about myself currently, i feel sh!tty because life is in the way. I always do best to look good, but I notice that personal vibe is what matters most.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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White Boy

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Our names are pretty similar. You will find your answer if you comment my thread (pickup video)
 

asianbboy

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im asian + stylish glasses, i.e. glasses can oftentimes help. a good deal of chicks have told me i'm attractive (i've noticed much more interest after i started lifting). you just gotta have a sense of style to APPEAR attractive initially, and tbh lots of white girls love asian guys because you automatically are more unique than the typical dudes that pick em up. my game still is average, but I'm working on it.
 
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