"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Appealing to her...without her knowing it...

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I just read an article that states:

"When you look directly and potently into a woman's eyes, her body produces chemicals like phenylethylamine, or PEA, that jolts the sensation of being in love."

Are there any other methods of triggering similar sensations in a woman? If so, what are they and how can they be achieved?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simple, yet very effective! The girl I like is a pro at this! No wonder I like her so much... ;)
 

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Ha ha, no kidding, but really, it's complicated...I mean, we've kissed before, but it kind of seems like our relationship is at a standstill. She's told me a number of times that she really enjoys the time she spends with me...the chemistry and attraction is still there, and she's very touchy feely, but there is something missing.
 

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Actually, it was her who kissed me first. And after, she asked if it was ok. I thought she meant ok as in how she kissed, and I said definitely. I think she was really asking if it was ok that she kissed me. She's an enigma, that one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Timster
Actually, it was her who kissed me first. And after, she asked if it was ok. I thought she meant ok as in how she kissed, and I said definitely. I think she was really asking if it was ok that she kissed me. She's an enigma, that one.
No...YOU are the enigma. The reason she asked you whether it was OK for her to kiss you is probably because you acted so surprised by it.

She expected you to man up and take control.

Not saying you need to drop her on the floor and bang her the next time you see her, but you better do SOMETHING before the "kino" starts becoming rarer and rarer. :p
 

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Timster, it's not that complicated. She's giving you every sign short of skywriting that she's ... really interested in you. Period.

If you don't initiate something physical, she'll probably end up feeling rejected by you.
 
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