"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Appealing to her...without her knowing it...

Timster

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I just read an article that states:

"When you look directly and potently into a woman's eyes, her body produces chemicals like phenylethylamine, or PEA, that jolts the sensation of being in love."

Are there any other methods of triggering similar sensations in a woman? If so, what are they and how can they be achieved?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Simple, yet very effective! The girl I like is a pro at this! No wonder I like her so much... ;)
 

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Ha ha, no kidding, but really, it's complicated...I mean, we've kissed before, but it kind of seems like our relationship is at a standstill. She's told me a number of times that she really enjoys the time she spends with me...the chemistry and attraction is still there, and she's very touchy feely, but there is something missing.
 

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Actually, it was her who kissed me first. And after, she asked if it was ok. I thought she meant ok as in how she kissed, and I said definitely. I think she was really asking if it was ok that she kissed me. She's an enigma, that one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

squirrels

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Originally posted by Timster
Actually, it was her who kissed me first. And after, she asked if it was ok. I thought she meant ok as in how she kissed, and I said definitely. I think she was really asking if it was ok that she kissed me. She's an enigma, that one.
No...YOU are the enigma. The reason she asked you whether it was OK for her to kiss you is probably because you acted so surprised by it.

She expected you to man up and take control.

Not saying you need to drop her on the floor and bang her the next time you see her, but you better do SOMETHING before the "kino" starts becoming rarer and rarer. :p
 

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Timster, it's not that complicated. She's giving you every sign short of skywriting that she's ... really interested in you. Period.

If you don't initiate something physical, she'll probably end up feeling rejected by you.
 
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