Apparently, the board should go down more often.

[izza]

Now I don't have time to call these women and read all those new posts at the same time... oh well, :yawn: I'll call them later.

But seriously, very profitable down time. Look at all these bells and whistles! :cheer:

Last wednesday, I collected everything and realized I had 11 phone numbers in play. And I have backup chicks besides those 11, who are also very cute. I have been an unpopular computer nerd my entire life, there is something very unusual going on here.

I had heard about a free jazz concert, so I just figured I'd sms every chick on my list until someone said yes. The first said yes LOL, so I went with her and it was fun.

I don't have enough free time to set up something with all these women. This is retarded. Oh wait, one didn't call me back... make that 10 LOL, having all these phone numbers is so weird!

Discoveries

1. When I don't care about women, they chase me all over the place
2. I hope to be single the rest of my life
3. Arrogance is my worst enemy.
4. The new Sosuave.net rules

Izza

 

[Desdinova]

Isn't it absolutely amazing when you begin to reap what you have sown? Good stuff! Try juggling two or three women at the same time. I find four or more too many.

 

[frivolousz21]

Izza is entering his prime game time


BE

 

[Golden Arms]

Giggity giggity !!!

 

[Fash]

[*]Arrogance is my worst enemy.

Amen brother. Amen

 

[DJ4Real]

"Not chasing women"



Yeah, this one works because women usually expect the guy to do all of the chasing, it's disgusting how guys act to get a woman.:nervous:

 

[backbreaker]

yeah, I feel bad for guys who are 18 and found the "love of their lives" (i.e got it put on them heavy and didn't know what to do) and get married.. they will be divorced in 3-5 years if that

I don't even want a Girlfriend.. being tied up? You can forget it

 

[cA^]

Isn't it absolutely amazing when you begin to reap what you have sown?

Yes!

In the past few weeks, i've made out with a girl during school (we had the line off) in the nature reserve near our school! I also got the numbers of 3 other girls!

It's all starting to pay off now and i'm doing stuff naturally like a DJ without thinking, unlike before when I was an AFC!

:rock:

 

[scorpio king]

I propose that the forum be closed every other week......So that everyone is motivated to be in the field.....What do you brothers say?

 

[Brian20o2]

I propose that the forum be closed every other week......So that everyone is motivated to be in the field.....What do you brothers say?

I can honestly say that would be awesome. I found I got alot more done when this was down than when it was up.

 

[izza]

Amen brother. Amen

It's horrible, isn't it? That's the hardest part about any success is keeping your head cool.

Izza

 

[izza]

Yeah, well this is just 11 phone numbers. That doesn't mean jack - I might not get a date out of any of them. It's seriously complicated, and I get lazy and give up easily.

When I first decided I wanted to master the domain of women, I realized there were 4 basic skills to master: approaching, conversation that leads to a phone number, and turning phone numbers into dates, and optimal date behavior. For me, all other aspects of dating could be based on these four basic skills.

It felt really overwhelming and unrewarding at the beginning, because even when I did approach I sucked in the other three domains, so nothing came out of it. I would botch the conversation with awkward jokes, or chicken out of asking for the number. Even when I got the number, well, women can be a bit flaky.

But it became less overwhelming when I decided to master one at a time. I focus on approaching and if I don't ask for the number it's not a big deal, because at least I approached. I wouldn't say I've mastered approaching because I still approach only the wimpy way. I'm still too frightened to just walk up and say how are you. I start with a joke if I can think of one, or, since I'm in France, I ask the surrounding hotties to explain various French words to me. Whatever works.

I'm starting to do great, so well that I have a crapload of numbers. This is why, in this post, I announce that I have moved on to mastering the numbers game. I've gotten at least 20-30 numbers since I've been in France, and I've called at least 15 of them. I have 11 in play right now, 5 that I'm actively working on. But I've had one measly date! Hahaha, so I have a lot of work to do in this department. When do I call? What kinds of things should I suggest?

I think this board has had an effect on me. When I first started I said "but I like sitting and talking with women over coffee." Now the idea makes me want to hurl. Oh my god, who would WANT to sit there, and TALK?

Anyway, congratulations to me, I'm starting to see progress and I'm having fun. I'm not saying I've mastered anything... I'm still a total chump 15 months after discovering this board. And I still have no dates. But I have numbers!

Izza

P.S. If there's one thing I've discovered it's that women come and go in droves. It wasn't me who got all these women, it was just some part of me being ready. Maybe sometime soon, i won't have any numbers at all. It's just the way it goes, and it's nice to have some down time. Women are stressful, I wish they would be more cooperative.

Success with women toys with my head. I start feeling superior to all these lonely people - even though I'm lonely too. I feel all powerful, even though I'm still completely powerless over my own life and the women in it. Once a cute girl smiles at me, all my humility goes out the window, and I start playing and replaying the conversations in my head, giving myself pats on the back or exaggerating my mistakes. Eww, it's so gross and egotistical. My God, when am I going to learn?

Izza