"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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apologize or not?

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falcon814

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a friend of mine from back home but also in same college.. has been coming over to my dorm late at nights..

She has been over 3 times.. but all 3 times she just wanted to "cuddle" when i tried to take things farther.

So today i got pissed off and told her to quit wasting my time and leave if shes not gonna put out. (this has worked for me before)

But she gives me free rides home ( i dont have a car on campus ) and i was supposed to go home this weekend lol but now i feel like an ass.. and dont know if i shud apologize or not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nicelife

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you shouldnt of snapped at her.. what you should of done after the 1st or 2nd time is told her you were busy when she tried to come over again to try and give her the msg that she has to do more than cuddling to get your attention/company..

you arent a teddy bear available all the time for her convenience, she has to earn those cuddles

i would say dont apologize, but how did she react when you told her to put out or get out?
 
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Well dude, you feel like an ass because that was a pretty d*ck move. First off, I don't think you should be pissing off your free ride back home. Let alone pissing her off because you're mad she won't f*** you. You are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too focused on the end game here man. your mind needs to be on the moment at hand. You have to take things step by step man. A girl isn't just gonna all of a sudden wanna hump something like guys tend to do. She has to worked up to it. Like boilin' frogs man, if you try to throw that sucker in some boilin' water he's gonna jump right out. But if you start warm and then slowly build that heat up, the frogs gonna be cooked before he even knows what's going on. You have to work a woman up to the experience man. But I gotta say somethin else. Seriously. If you want to have the success that you desire, you need to be completely okay without sex. Sex should not matter to you at all. If you can walk away from sex, then you are the most powerful man. What actually matters is the *INTERACTION BETWEEN YOU BOTH*. If you can have fun and spontaneous interactions with women, that is what will lead to women sleeping with you. It's the feeling they get when they are around you, they want more of it, so they try everything they can to get more. Sex is just another part of the interaction. Take your focus off the sex man.

In addition, yes, you should apologize for being a butthole. Then if you can manage to alter your perspective a little bit, you may be able to make progress. Remember though, there be millions o' fishes in the sea. So maybe you should go f***in find more fish.
 
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If she's your only ride, I think you need to apologize. What's more important, getting to where you need to go or a piece of tail?

Yes, what you did shows that you don't want to be teased, and you're not going to put up with a tease, but since you need her for a necessity like a ride home and elsewhere, she's got the upper hand in this situation. You should find tail elsewhere.

Also, never show a woman that you need sex from her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's wrong with just cuddling, seriously?
 
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nicelife said:
you shouldnt of snapped at her.. what you should of done after the 1st or 2nd time is told her you were busy when she tried to come over again to try and give her the msg that she has to do more than cuddling to get your attention/company..

you arent a teddy bear available all the time for her convenience, she has to earn those cuddles

i would say dont apologize, but how did she react when you told her to put out or get out?
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she just said If i was being serious.
 
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If You Feel Rational In Telling Her Off At The Moment
Never Apologize Latter.
It Shows A Lack Of Spine And Chumpness
Now If You Accidentally Ran Over Her Dog Apologize!
You Are Not Her Play Thing To Feel Affectionate And Build Up Your Blue Balls
 
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