Apoligize for a drunk dial???

[touge_gc8]

if you dont feel like a long read, skip done to the stars....

anyway this girl... we went out a few times last summer, only got as far a s a kiss (with tongue tho at least) then she went away to school and we sorta stopped talking for a bit..

figured she'd be good to keep as a friend/backup, so i would call her up every few weeks and we'd chat anywhere from 15- 30 mins... but i'd ALWAYS end the call first, and sometimes she text me asking to call when i get a chance... i'd text back with a maybe later and sometimes wait til the next day, claiming i 'forgot'.... on 2 occasions, after we had stopped talking for a while, i have received texts from her saying "i miss u" (at about 2 in morning, so their drunk texts)...

anyway,,, yes this girl is my oneitis, and i know shes probably seeing other guys, just as i have been seeing other girls... but neither of us ever mention the other sex, so i'm not her emotional tampon... and usually when i call i'll be on my way home from school stuck in traffic and tell her i'm bored and want her to entertain me...to which she pouts about and says "why do you only call me when you're bored"

she invited me up to her school once last september, but i didnt end up going, and acted afc about it (sent her a text saying "dont be mad at me")..... after that i never received any invites up, but when shes in town she'll call me up to hang.... i've gone away the last 2 vacations (christmas and spring break)... so only saw her once over christmas, went to the mall, but thats it...


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anyway i was visiting some other friends at her school this past saturday, sent her a text a few days before letting her know.... she tells me to call her when i get their.... saturday around 6, im on my way up, get a call from her, again she tells me to call her later..... she calls again about 8.30, saying she wont be able to get into the bar we're going to (fake id), but she will probly be goin to another bar... she ends the call with 'you better come see me or i'm gona be mad at you"... for this call i'm sitting beside this other chick chatting her up, so she can obviously hear i'm with other girls....

heres where it gets messy... i call her from the club at about midnight, and i'm sloppy.... i only remember a bit of the convo, but my phone tells me we talked for 4 minutes... it started off with her being really pissy at me for calling her from a club with music blaring... so i go outside and i ask her i shes going to that other bar... she says no she was at a keggar all day and too tired to go out.... dont remember the rest of the convo....

according to my phone i called her again at 2.45am but not sure if we talked (history says 30seconds, but that could just be ring time)...

i'm pretty sure at one point in the night, she got pissy and told me to stop ****ing calling her...

she'll be back home friday, and i'd like to grab a coffee with her and catch up, but i'm unsure of what i may have said to her that night... should i call ahead of time to apoligize, or just play it off like i dont remember much and call her friday for coffee??

 

[DonGorgon]

Never apologize to a woman.

you ca n say you regret what happend but never say you are sorry.

 

[touge_gc8]

i'm leaning to the pretend i was ridiculously wasted (well in my defense i was)....

and i'm pretty sure she was too as she had been at a keggar all day.... and i'm thinking the reason she got pissy was because i travelled all the way to her school and didnt make much of an effort to see or call her....

i know i probably acted like a drunk retard on the phone, but its just the fact that she was pissy on the very first phone call i made to her from the club.... despite the fact she had called me twice earlier friendly as always... its a little hazy but i think she said something along the lines of "why would you call me with music blaring in the background do u think i wanna hear you out having fun" or something gay like that...

also shes drunk dialed me on more than a few occasions so if she does hold this against me i'll just be like "whatever its not like you've never d dialed me"..

 

[touge_gc8]

honestly i know this whole don juan thing is to never apoligize but i couldve acted like a total ass and not remember...

i'm thinking, wait til friday when shes back home, call her up, if she says anything like i dont wana talk to you, i say

"listen i'm not really sure what i said, and i'm not gonna blame it on the fact that i was ridiculously wasted, but in my defense.... i was ridiculously wasted....i dont wanna lose a friend over a stupid drunk dial... lets just put it behind us and grab a coffee"