"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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APB--Looking for lost b alls

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The root to most of the problems on the forum boils down to one factor: Your manhood is missing or not working.

Why do good looking guys get all the numbers?
They manned-up and went for it.

Why are ugly guys with fine women?
They manned-up and went for it.

Why do I get stuck for convo?
You didnt man up and let the uneasiness over whelm you.

Why do all fine women act like they are too good?
YOU didnt man up to get to know them so you created a universe in your head so you dont have to go talk to them.

What do I need to do to become the man in the club?
Man-up and talk to the women there.

What do I need to do to become the man in the bar?
Man-up and talk to the women there.

What do I need to do to become the man at college/work?
Man-up and talk to the women there.

What if I do man-up and she still disses man?
Man-up and stop crying about it, move on, and man-up with the very next one you see.

The root to most of the problems here is simply MEN NOT ACTING LIKE MEN AND INSTEAD TRY TO FIND INTELLECTUAL WAYS TO ACCEPT THEIR COWARDNESS.

CANCEL THAT APB ON *FILL IN YOUR NAME HERE* HE HAS FOUND HIS B-ALLS
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do all fine women act like they are too good?

All women, fine or not act like that. They all have the 'what have you done for me' mentality. You can thank society and all the AFC's for this.
 
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Doesnt matter what society has done, the war is on. If you man-up you can adjust too any situation. Courage is acting with fear beating down your back. A true soildier eats his fears and swallows them and use them for fuel. Dont make excuses just MAN-UP!
 
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The best way to deal with snobs is to ignore them. Make them work for your attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ignoring is simply acting like the enemy isn't shooting around you when they are. The best way is to man-up. Let them know like a man should that their behavior is inappropriate, and it needs to stop. If they persist then you waste no more time with them, but a man will let them know politely of course, why he is not expending any more time on them first, then move on, and man-up and move on.
 
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