Apathetic towards women

[Archol]

Hey guys

Not sure if this is the right thread for this but I've had something on my mind for a while now thats been really bothering me. I study at a university in Germany where there are at least 70% women, many of whom would be classified as at least a 6 on the SMV scale. My problem is that since I became red pill aware I look at them and feel nothing. It's like I made the subconscious decision to become MGTOW and I'm not sure I like it.

A little to myself, I'm 27 with divorced parents and an extreme beta father so I never had the positive male role model. I had one ONS a few years back that left quite a bad memory and no intimate contact since then. Never had a girlfriend either. I'm just coming off antidepressants and am still hoping that this is to blame for my apathy.

Has anyone else had an experience like this? I'd be glad to hear from others

 

[Archol]

I'm aware of the fact that I need to stop it, the question is how do I do it? I've started lifting again and am starting to get back into shape but is there anything else I can do?

@Yannick43 How did you get out of the cycle?

 

[Reckoning]

Stop watching porn and masturbating, no exceptions until your sexual instinct kicks back in. When it does, do it only when you get blue balls or something.

 

[Fitters]

This is actually good if you can channel it positively.

 

[Archol]

This is actually good if you can channel it positively.

Not sure I understand what you mean by that. Can you elaborate?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Hey guys

Not sure if this is the right thread for this but I've had something on my mind for a while now thats been really bothering me. I study at a university in Germany where there are at least 70% women, many of whom would be classified as at least a 6 on the SMV scale. My problem is that since I became red pill aware I look at them and feel nothing. It's like I made the subconscious decision to become MGTOW and I'm not sure I like it.

A little to myself, I'm 27 with divorced parents and an extreme beta father so I never had the positive male role model. I had one ONS a few years back that left quite a bad memory and no intimate contact since then. Never had a girlfriend either. I'm just coming off antidepressants and am still hoping that this is to blame for my apathy.

Has anyone else had an experience like this? I'd be glad to hear from others

Your talking to the right guy. The first thing you need to do to get out of your rut is to get some puzzy. Don't overly theorize it or put them on a pedestal, get some. A man needs to have sex with females. It opens your inner male and your sexual side needs that fuel of real sex with a female. Hormones flow, testosterone surges, your body feels better in space, because you are a man.

Do not set your sights on 9,10's to get your d1ck wet at first. Get what you can even if she is chubbier or doesn't look as pretty as you like. A less attractive woman will work hard to please you and won't get on your nerves as she wants to accomidate you.

Once you have gotten your d1ck wet, keep it wet. While you work your way up in our system. It takes time, but the first step is to get your d1ck wet, it makes everything else a lot easier.

Women LOVE to see a man who is sexually active able to assert himself, but they NEVER want to feed the sexually starving man, doesn't matter if he looks good.

 

[El Payaso]

This is good. Why do you want to be dependent on some b!tch? Just so you can blend in with the crowd? Hell, I wish I could be more apathetic towards women.

 

[Poon King]

This is good. Why do you want to be dependent on some b!tch? Just so you can blend in with the crowd? Hell, I wish I could be more apathetic towards women.

Spot on.

Why do you feel you need to engage in servitude under a woman.. even when you have no desire to?

What you have is a naturally alpha attitude towards women (not giving a sh!t about them).. YET you want to become beta just to fit in? Makes no f*cking sense.

All the faggot frat boys will per pressure you by judging you based on how many women you can pander to or sport f*ck. These guy are both beta and moronic because they base their entire existence on their interactions with women.

I remember collage as being the easiest place in the world to get laid. The women come onto you and you really don't need any game, money or alpha qualities whatsoever.

I say.. if you're this indifferent.. then let the women come to YOU. F*ck the ones you like and ignore the ones you don't.

You are letting blue pill society create a problem in your mind that doesn't exist.

 

[Who Dares Win]

So you complain about not being dependant on someone else?

Sure sex is great but if you dont feel the need to or simply feel like dealing with women is more costs than benefits, there is nothing wrong.

You're not alone in this, personally I like to have sex with women just at my terms, if I have to spend my day doing things I dont like while pretending to be different just to fit then no, I would rather do my own stuff, make my choice and pass on sex for this time.

It seems like you just want to fit in a place which is the one of the guy which desire women and is ready to work for it, I dont see a point to create a need you dont have that will cost you plenty of time and resourches to invest.

Lets me be honest when most of the women dont have much to offer than sex, and they make you pay for it as if you're getting the entire packaged and more, it may not worth.

 

[zekko]

Your talking to the right guy. The first thing you need to do to get out of your rut is to get some puzzy.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding what the OP is saying, but if I'm not:

I don't think he's complaining because he wants to be dependent on a chick or get into a relationship, I think he's saying he lacks the motivation to interact with them at ALL. Which would include banging them, or at least he lacks the motivation to put any effort into banging them. He looks at them and none of them are really getting his juices flowing, so to speak.

 

[Archol]

Maybe I'm misunderstanding what the OP is saying, but if I'm not:

I don't think he's complaining because he wants to be dependent on a chick or get into a relationship, I think he's saying he lacks the motivation to interact with them at ALL. Which would include banging them, or at least he lacks the motivation to put any effort into banging them. He looks at them and none of them are really getting his juices flowing, so to speak.

Damn you summed that up nicely. That's what I was trying to say. I'm not the type to go out of my way to try and get laid, seems to me to be a waste of time. Especially when you consider the fact that the girls at college seem so sex starved that they'll shack up with just about anybody. It seems like a waste to not exploit that to be honest . My problem is that I don't really see women subjectively. I don't think to myself "damn, she's hot. I want to bone her". It's more like "oh look at that, a woman. Oh, there's another one other there". It's like I perceive them as random objects and none of them turn me on.

Maybe I'm still stuck in the denial phase of becoming red pill aware and am just angry at all women for being so duplicitous and that's what is holding me back from joining the party

 

[WorkHardPlayHard]

Maybe I'm still stuck in the denial phase of becoming red pill aware and am just angry at all women for being so duplicitous and that's what is holding me back from joining the party

It's good to not be dependent on women. You'll notice your success with them increasing once you can emotionally detach yourself, refraining from outcome dependency.

However, do not be angry, bitter, resentful towards them. That will do you no good. You should enjoy and appreciate women, just not chase them around, trying to appease them. Yes, there are a lot of ****ty girls out there, but there are some good ones out there too. Be open to meeting them.

 

[ubercat]

I d suggest joining a Pilate's class or a book club. Something full of chicks. And just get usedvto talking to them. And on the other extreme y not use yr youth. Register as a cub on one of those cougar sites. Yr seeing the world in red pill monochrome u need to interact with women to see they re all different but share some common programming