“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyway to save this??

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Havent posted in a while, been very busy lately. Going to make this as short as I can for you guys.

-Hooked up with an ex from 2 years ago again (We were on and off for 2 years)
-Broke up 3 times total
-Apparently I "Broke her heart" by breaking up with her
-Started hanging again about 2 months ago
-Got heavy quick, like it always did (Acted like we where in a relationship when hanging, kind of freaked me out a bit too)
-Hung out 1-3 times a week

Heres the kicker: She ended it with her a couple of days ago, why?
-She couldnt really give me a straight answer to everything..but:
-Doesnt want to be hurt again
-Seeing each other to much (Bull, we used to hang 6x a week a year ago)

I feel its over completely, since this was the fouth time getting back together. Also shes moving to her home state in May (3 hours away)

Anyway I can save this and keep it as a FWB situation for the next couple months, or just cut my loses here?
Only issue is, im starting to develop oneitis for this girl again, we did a lot together, I tried with this one, when together she was good to me..Miss her a bit.


How would you guys handle this one?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CrimsonPanther

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Crissco said:
Anyway I can save this and keep it as a FWB situation for the next couple months, or just cut my loses here?
normally yes
Only issue is, im starting to develop oneitis for this girl again
this is why you cannot
, we did a lot together, I tried with this one, when together she was good to me..Miss her a bit.
so spin plates. oneitis avoided, "missing her" avoided, problem solved.
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normally, if you play it cool, you could have a temporary FWB with her. temporary, because eventually she will want more anyway. but in this case YOU will want more. this would not be a problem, if she would feel the same, but i have a feeling this is a forced relationship that is destined to end.

your choice in the end.
 
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CrimsonPanther said:
normally, if you play it cool, you could have a temporary FWB with her. temporary, because eventually she will want more anyway. but in this case YOU will want more. this would not be a problem, if she would feel the same, but i have a feeling this is a forced relationship that is destined to end.

your choice in the end.
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I had that feeling for a while also. Which is probally why I broke it off the first 3 times with her.
 
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What was that quote from RT about dealing with EX'es?

Picking through the garbage and your neighbors seeing it or something...
 
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You answered your own question:

Crissco said:
Anyway I can save this and keep it as a FWB situation for the next couple months, or just cut my loses here??
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Crissco said:
Only issue is, im starting to develop oneitis for this girl again,
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If you develop oneitis for her then you can't keep it FWB because you will be lying to yourself hoping this will turn into a relationship.

Cut your losses and move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She only came back for validation. Open your eyes, you're being used!
 
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