"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyway to fix an uneven six pack?

The Sperminator

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6 pack isn't even is there a way to fix this or is it going to be like that forever?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zazenth

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Unfortunately nature is cruel. You can buy those portable electrodes that contract specific muscles (can’t remember what they are called), they can slowly sort it out.

But nothing to really worry about, allot of men are like that.
 

spesmilitis

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Most guys are a little uneven, no big deal. Its like now girls have one breat a little bigger than the other or how one guy's ball hangs a little lower.
 

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What do you mean by uneven?
 

NeedToImprove

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the triceps in my right arm is wayyyy more developed than the left one, the same with other muscles.unless you are professional bodybuilder theres nothing much you can do, its in your nature. alot of people are like that
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt

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NeedToImprove said:
the triceps in my right arm is wayyyy more developed than the left one, the same with other muscles.unless you are professional bodybuilder theres nothing much you can do, its in your nature. alot of people are like that
There is a difference between being more developed and being out of alignment(abs). The poster is talking about how most abs,especially when they really start to develop, are not matched side to side perfectly.
 

NeedToImprove

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blinkwatt said:
There is a difference between being more developed and being out of alignment(abs). The poster is talking about how most abs,especially when they really start to develop, are not matched side to side perfectly.
humm didnt understand what he meant with uneven. thanks for clearing it up mate
 

Scars

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My abs are a little uneven. I can see my top 4 abs, but the two bottom ones are covered in fat. So I have like a 4 pack..
 
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