"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone watching Real World Austin?

DJ_in_making

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I got sick to my stomach (not literally) by the way Rachel treated her marine bf. I firmly believe she's just with him until she finds a better guy. She could make-out with other guys & try to f*ck them, but when he talks to other girls she gets all pissed.
He reached a new level of AFC. Especially when he said. "I'm not going home with those girls, I love Rachel"

And he still got NO SEX. Traveled hundreds of miles and NO SEX.
He reached a new level of AFC, that no one in this site has probably ever been to.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vincent

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There were a lot of things on that show that makes me cringe. I watched the first half of the season, then I just forgot what time it was on (it went from 11 to 9 when I went to school because the timezone changed from mountain to central) so I'm not sure what happened in the end, nor do I want to tak ethe time to follow it again.
 

organizedconfusion

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dude, danny is a such a freakin' beta a$$ sissy in that
show...BUT he still got Melinda. Ba$tard!
i am guessing she's one of those girls that like drama...

Johanna is also hot.
she is a prize and acts like one. too bad not all guys will
chase her..leaving her frustrated.
Wes seems to fit the bill though.

Wes needs to up his game a lil more and he'll get the girls-
he's already got the attitude.
and Wren isn't soo bad either,but a little too dingy & bland
for my tastes.
The Real World MTV...if everyone was good looking,
lived in a mansion and all got along..and had sex.

for the record i don't think he's an AFC(rachels man)
...he actually loves her
and is putting up with her sh*t,thick and thin.
taking risks and making sacrifices is a part of being in love.
she cares about him,she's just confused and unsure of
herself. I'd rather a girl NOT give it up and stay true to
herself ,then just do it just because thats whats expected of her.

i don't care though, she's a tree stump and she's lucky
anyone would like her.
 

LittleElf

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The fact that the show takes place in Austin and is on MTV should be a sign to stay away from it.
 

Bling

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It's all staged. Danny's mom mysteriously dies. Last year, Landon's ex-girlfriend mysteriously appears in Philly because the plane broke down. Nehemiah ends up in jail the second they need him. There's a mysterious glitch. Her marine boyfriend is her ***** (and she's got a ****ed up ugly nose). It's all staged.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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