"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone use protein shakes, muscle milk, etc?

jeffthechef

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How many interactions before number closing?

When you've just met the girl or barely speak to her, how many times should you speak/meet before number closing?

I usually say 3, but I also wonder if it matters at all.

Reason i'm asking is this, this girl i've barely talked to this year is single. Her ex is leaving for college, grade above us, and i've made so many afc apporaches in the past. She's still interested in me, just not as much as she was initially.

I want to ask her to prom, but i think i should take her out at least once before i do ask her. How many times should i talk to her again before i number close? Prom is 4 weeks away, so not that much time because we have no classes together.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont use that stuff i just use water while working out and keep a good diet i find those protein shakes a waste of money
 

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Ztr1der said:
i dont use that stuff i just use water while working out and keep a good diet i find those protein shakes a waste of money
you dont use protein shakes while working out



and as long as you can get at least a gram of protein per pound of lean body weight, then you dont need protein powder, but, its still good, as whey digests really fast.
 
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