"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone try teeth whitening?

mossrisjhons

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i drink a lot of coffee and i was wondering if anyone has used whitening products to get rid of yellow tint coffee drinking makes your teeth?

i think Crest whitening trays would really help us coffee drinkers out! i work with the people at Crest and the whitening trays whiten your teeth quickly and it''s only about 30 minutes a day.

you can still drink coffee after and before whenever you and still get whiter teeth, anyone think about whitening your teeth or using Crest?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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StefanLT

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I've done it and it works well. I got a free whitening kit from my dentist for signing up with them. It's worth it and can make a difference for you. Give it a shot. :)
 

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Hi,
I drink way too much coffee and started to get stressed out when they weren't as white anymore. I was going to go the dentist to have him do it but it was ridiculously expensive. So I looked for forever and I finally found a kit that's just like the one the dentist uses with the mold and injection. It works amazing and fast, I could see the difference after the first one ! I'm glad I didn't have the dentist do it. I got it on sale too because they were having a trial where you get to try it for the cost of shipping for like 6 bucks here's the website. "http://mywhiterteeth.info"
 

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Just to chime in. I used CREST Whitestrips kind of expensive, but they work great. Cut out coffee and coke too. I also talked to a dentist she claims that strips are just as good pro whitening.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know if the whitening products sold on the internet actually work, (no firsthand experience) but I'd say *don't* buy any of the teeth whitening products you see advertised on the internet as they get you onto a rebill program where it's very difficult (if not impossible) to cancel.

You will get charged and sent product monthly - for an example, the website posted by ignatiusmael is an affiliate site which sells a rebill product.

In fact I wouldn't be surprised if this whole thread has simply been created to send traffic through some guys affiliate link.
 

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if you want white teeth go to your dentist and get the bleaching gel. this is the only stuff that is any good. them cheap whitening methods you buy at the drugs store and are sold over the counter suck.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Did you even read it? If you want to erode your teeth you can use vinegar or other cheap acids as mouthwash.



The best way to whiten teeth is to use some form of peroxides. This is what dentists use to bleach your teeth along with some UV light or laser to speed up the process.
yeah i read it, it said to not use it too often.
 

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thedude4242 said:
if you want white teeth go to your dentist and get the bleaching gel. this is the only stuff that is any good. them cheap whitening methods you buy at the drugs store and are sold over the counter suck.
No they don't. I haven't finished my batch of Crest White Strips Advanced seal but after 10 treatments (there are 14 total) I have noticed a nice improvement. It's not black and white, but definitely a couple shades whiter and I haven't even finished yet, so to me that's worth it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lorekeeper

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Alle_Gory said:
Or at all. Acids erode tooth enamel.
right, but the acid is in the strawberries. how much stronger could it be then the use-at-home products?

however, I guess the fact that its mixed with baking soda probably multiplies it quite a bit ;) anyways. just threw that link out there cause i heard of using it once. I'm not condoning it, not promoting it, just posted a link ;)
 

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Teeth whitening is great, but the problem is if your teeth are stained from drinking coffee, if you keep drinking coffee they're not going to stay white very long. Tea is bad or worse.

I've also read somewhere that if you overdo the peroxides they can make your teeth darker, which is not good. I think they said you're not supposed to use them more than every six months, but I can't remember for sure.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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