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Which countrys are american men not usaly welcomed, if any?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Anyone travel to Europe?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
theunflushables
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Thats a trick question. If you don't act like a regular tourist, and follow the cultural rules you'll be fine. However if you're loud and obnoxious and wear shorts when going to cultural events (i.e. churches, museums, visiting the pope) Or refuse to even try to speak the native language (even if its just to ask if they speak english) then you'll look like a total tool.
Best way to think of it this way, if you act properly it would be like a DJ in a club full of HB10's. If you are loud, rude and obnoxious, you're nothing more than a AFC in a club full of HB10's.
Best way to think of it this way, if you act properly it would be like a DJ in a club full of HB10's. If you are loud, rude and obnoxious, you're nothing more than a AFC in a club full of HB10's.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I've been over there 4 times in the last 6 months. To England twice and to Great Britain twice. I mean.... it's pretty much the same dude. I went to France as well, but I know French so it wasn't that big of a difference.
Master Bates
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Anywhere you'd want to go in europe, you'll be "welcomed". Just don't look like a tourist jackass. No cameras hanging off your neck, no fanny packs, no overtly "Hay guyz i'm american!" items/clothing on you, be friendly, and people will be friendly to you. I've been to five european countries (six if you count Crete which is a totally different experience from Athens), and except for one asshat desk guy at a hotel in Rome, I didn't have any bad encounters.
btw I've been to Paris, Florence, Rome, Athens, Crete, Amsterdam and Edinburgh.
btw I've been to Paris, Florence, Rome, Athens, Crete, Amsterdam and Edinburgh.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
how's crete? never been there. I basically go wherever there is good horse racing
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
In Germany and France, me and my friends were pretty much your typical retarded Americans. But literally, anytime we went out to bars, we had the whole bar become our entourage...they LOVED us, probably because we were so dim witted and foreign (we went to not major cities where English isnt so common).