"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone Succeed With Solo Clubbing?

JonnyX

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I've been in/out of the PUA community since my early 20s. I've already done hundreds to thousands of club/bar cold approaches. But I almost always in the past have done them with wingmen.

Primarily, the things I hate about wingmen:

- You are reliant on someone else to go out.
- Wingmen can be flaky and inconsistent.

I can carry a group or conversation on my own if the girls are remotely interested. I don't need help with that. Mostly when I've benefited from a wingman is just when he's taller and better looking than me so I can use him as an attractive "prop" to hook interest and not get blown off from the opener.

I've gone out on purpose to a few things in the past few years to test the waters - clubs, bars, concerts.

Just wondering if anyone has any experience or success with this and how you have found it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Murk

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Yes, but mainly because I was just out there doing my thing having fun, NOT scoping, probing and circling clubs for women. I met my ex gf alone in a club, she came up to me and said her friends likes me.

I wouldn't do it now, already proved to myself I can go out alone.
 

skinnyguy

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Not really. It’s not that fun.

The best is when I’m in a big group of guys and girls. I almost always pull in these situations. And it ends up being hotter girls too.
 

Red Legg

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I succeed in regular bars( solo) most of the time unless my gf is with me..Just last week I chatted up a 25 year old hottie at a dive bar who kept rubbing her ass "accidently" on me.She did it 3 times (obviously on purpose to get my attention) I told her I would spank it if she rubbed her ass on me again,she tested and I gave her a good whack.I got her number but have not texted it yet as I am busy with other plates at the moment.If you can't be alone macking in a bar then you are NOT alpha IMO.
 
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