"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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anyone seen deesade?

taiyuu_otoko

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There are reasons baring both sides, but none for LTRs that have ONLY logic and rationale to them.
There are ZERO things humans do that have ONLY logic and rationale to them.

Humans are always driven by emotions and we pretend we're driven by logic. Human intentions are never rational. Desire for sex and human companionship, whatever form it takes, is never rational. It is always emotionally driven.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desire for sex and human companionship, whatever form it takes, is never rational. It is always emotionally driven.
Not emotionally driven. Biologically driven. It is in our genes to reproduce because of evolution. It is also in our genes to stick together because cooperating as groups increases chances of survival more than otherwise.
 

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Not emotionally driven. Biologically driven. It is in our genes to reproduce because of evolution. It is also in our genes to stick together because cooperating as groups increases chances of survival more than otherwise.
Emotions are part of the human makeup however, and as such are part of the evolutionary package that has made the species successful, and is passed on in our genes. You can't separate emotion from our biological drives because it's all a part of the whole. Just like the urge to pair bond is a way to ensure survival of our offspring, and is tied in with our biological drive to reproduce.

That said, given the choice of LTRs or plate spinning, I still don't think one decision is any more emotional than the other.
 
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