Anyone see anything wrong with this email??

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

The_411

Master Don Juan

Jul 19, 2006

1. You are caring too much about what this chick is doing. Concentrate on you if you want to IM her then do it if she's busy then fine her loss.

2. Why the rush like you said who wants to wait around for some chick. She just one out of 3 billion. It's been two days sometimes it can take a long time.

3. Not every girl wants to be with you. No this is not condecending it means that you need to realize that there no reason to waste time worrying about it.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.