"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone sarging solo Saturday night?

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I used to do this all the time and did pretty well. It's been months though and feeling a bit nervous about this.

Last few times I went out it was a bit of a sausage fest. Hope it's not like that tonight.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I do best alone; I love counting on myself and only myself. It's like an individual sport vs team sport. I want all the credit.
 
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the more friendly you are with the person you go , the more likely you are to revert to just hanging out with them, id go with a coworker , or a friend of a friend , will make you more likely to focus on your intent
 
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Hey man.

I went out last Saturday night and met some friendly people. I'm working late today, so no sarging this weekend for me. Hopefully I'll be back out next Saturday night.

Go out slightly early, get warmed up, and it's game on.
 
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Hey Mike,

Went out for the first time in ages. Spent most of the night in the club with a hot Chinese girl. Danced, etc, was kissing her neck and stuff but she wouldn't come back with me. So utterly frustrated right now. If there's ever a time to order in a wh*re, this would be it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was gonna get out tonight to , but me and my coworker both have to be at work a t 11 tomorrow , didnt wanna risk it there's always next weekend
 
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