"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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anyone reunited with ex after 5 months?

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NC was broken by her first then awesome hookup then two months of NC and at the end I confronted/insulted her for what she did etc(not good move)- now been two months seeing ehr tomorrow - has anyone got back together with an ex after 5 months on and off NC and how?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A man and a woman solve their problems in bed. That's why breaking up is silly. Women endlessly provoke men. The correct response is always the same: bend her over. Then go get a beer, read SS, play a video game, watch TV, whatever.
 

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Down Low said:
A man and a woman solve their problems in bed. That's why breaking up is silly. Women endlessly provoke men. The correct response is always the same: bend her over. Then go get a beer, read SS, play a video game, watch TV, whatever.
lol!

I think at some deep level you are right!
 
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