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Hooligan Harry

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Nefty said:
A co-worker of mine has told me that he travels to Costa Rica and the Dominican Republic a couple of times a year to go on week-long "sex tours" of his own. He waxes ecstatic about how hot the prostitutes are and how inexpensive it is to hire them.

Here's the kicker: we live in South Florida, where there are TONS of hot women who are from the aforementioned places, as well as all other parts of Latin America; but they won't even give him the WRONG time of day. He's admitted on various occasions that he does horrible with the women down here. So not only is he PAYING to bang hot, exotic women, he also LEAVES THE COUNTRY to do so....even though the same type of women are in his own backyard. That is BLEEDING chumpdom and weak game.

Any way you slice it, it's just stupid to run the various risks involved in picking up prostitutes. I agree with whomever said that doing such a thing inhibits personal growth; there's just nothing DJ about that. Those here who attempt to justify hiring prostitutes by rationalizing that "everyone pays for sex in one way or another" are making a very silly over-simplification that doesn't wash.
This is what I find amazing. You see this as a problem with HIS GAME instead of seeing it for what it really is. You talk about an over-simplification but you fail to see what this scenario could teach both YOU AND HIM as individuals.

Consider that in Costa Rica or any other "poor" South American country that you are going on holiday as a middle class American. A middle class American is incredibly wealthy by South American standards.

- You have a job
- You probably have an education of some sort
- You treat women well in most cases
- You think about tomorrow and you worry about your retirement.
- You are different and exotic to them
- They have to compete with other women

All of these give you an automatic boost in status If ever you doubt that money plays a role in attraction go to a poor country where you are considered a rich man. Its an eye opener. These are women who are more traditional then western women and more feminine yet compete for you because you have high value. No different to how western woman chase good looking multi millionaires. Its in a womans nature to do so. So the tons of freebies on offer in those countries are really coming because creating the initial interest in a woman was done before you opened your mouth and "started spitting your game" (Jesus, I am learning to hate that phrase). Chances are she will have a high interest level to begin with simply because of your status.

Now firstly this guy is banging hookers. You dont need game to bang hookers you need money to bang hookers. He could bang hookers in the USA it would just cost him more. The exchange rate working in his favour means he bangs hotties for next to nothing. He is not gaming these women. He is going on a sex holiday where the exchange rate suits him and where the hookers are hot by his standards.

Secondly, understand that Costa Rican women living in the USA now have middle class Americans all around them. The status lift you had as a "rich American" in Costa Rica disappears altogether in your own country because every second guys she sees:

- Has a decent job
- Has an education of some sort
- Treats women well in most cases
- Thinks about tomorrow and you worry about your retirement.
- Is not exotic or different
- Has to now compete for women instead of her competing for him

So your status needs to be displayed in other ways. You need to display value in other ways. Looks, game, more money the average guy, high social status, etc. Those women are good looking and as they come across to the USA they have a larger pool of eligible men to choose from and they themselves have LESS COMPETITION.

From the stance you have taken though, I assume you have a line of Costa Rican honeys lined up outside your bedroom door?
 

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everywomanshero said:
To edger: Did you go to showboat? I'm telling ya man you gotta go there. The train ride hardly costs anything, it's a little hard to find and a bit of a walk from the train station but it's worth it.
No, what is it? Damn, I guess I missed out on something good. And I was just there.
 

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A couple of facts and opinions. First of all the only people who call U.S. sex workers call girls or escorts is the media and Charlie Sheen. The modern term is Provider and what were formerly called johns are now referred to as hobbyists. For that matter the sex trade is referred to as the Hobby.

Every major American city has a least one local forum where Providers post ads, hobbyists post reviews of their experiences with a given Provider. The discussions around sex and culture in general are lively and sophisticated. The openness about sexuality is highly refreshing.

There's an old saying: "Men don't pay women to have sex; they pay for them to leave." For many men (many successful men) that's the motivation for engaging in the Hobby.

As a middle aged man, I have neither the time nor inclination to hit clubs 7 days a week or hang out in malls or book stores for hours to practice day game.

In a short time on a local review board I can not only check out women's ads, search for reviews about the woman I am interested in, and even search for her posts to get an idea of what she's like. That's a lot more than I can find out trying to pick up someone.

As to sex, the notion that just because someone is an HB9 or 10, that she is good in bed, or for that matter an interesting person, is ludicrous. In fact, more than likely she is neither. In the "real" world when I look for women I want to try to find out what her attitudes are regarding sex. In the Provider world, I already know.

For me, gaming women and meeting the occasional Provider is a great mix.
 

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Hooligan Harry said:
Consider that in Costa Rica or any other "poor" South American country that you are going on holiday as a middle class American. A middle class American is incredibly wealthy by South American standards.

- You have a job
- You probably have an education of some sort
- You treat women well in most cases
- You think about tomorrow and you worry about your retirement.
- You are different and exotic to them
- They have to compete with other women

All of these give you an automatic boost in status If ever you doubt that money plays a role in attraction go to a poor country where you are considered a rich man. Its an eye opener. These are women who are more traditional then western women and more feminine yet compete for you because you have high value. No different to how western woman chase good looking multi millionaires. Its in a womans nature to do so. So the tons of freebies on offer in those countries are really coming because creating the initial interest in a woman was done before you opened your mouth and "started spitting your game" (Jesus, I am learning to hate that phrase). Chances are she will have a high interest level to begin with simply because of your status.
This ties into my recent thread on The Importance of Perspective.

A guy who has been to a poor country gains perspective on women when it comes to wealth/status/power. He is able to at least catch a glimpse of what it might be like to be a minor rock star, politician, wealthy businessman etc., in the states.

Every day that goes by inches me closer and closer to moving to another country. Not because it's "easier" to get women (which of course is an added bonus) but because the women are more feminine and they APPRECIATE men.

I talked to a couple of Brazillian guys today. Told them I always wanted to visit their country. They gave me a "knowing" look, and one guy in his thick accent said "Yes, you will LOVE it there!"
 

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STR8UP said:
This ties into my recent thread on The Importance of Perspective.

A guy who has been to a poor country gains perspective on women when it comes to wealth/status/power. He is able to at least catch a glimpse of what it might be like to be a minor rock star, politician, wealthy businessman etc., in the states.

Every day that goes by inches me closer and closer to moving to another country. Not because it's "easier" to get women (which of course is an added bonus) but because the women are more feminine and they APPRECIATE men.

I talked to a couple of Brazillian guys today. Told them I always wanted to visit their country. They gave me a "knowing" look, and one guy in his thick accent said "Yes, you will LOVE it there!"


Come with me to Buenos Aires in September. I am going for 3 months, and it is better than Brazil from what I've gathered. Seriously, if you want to do it, let's hook it up, I have people who can show us around.


About this discussion - I know plenty of cool guys with hot girlfriends who still use call girls once in awhile. Nothing wrong with spending some $ if you can afford it.
 

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The the thing that makes makes call girls/hookers appealing is that you can basically treat them how you want. You bang them without any emotion and are able to get off your sordid fantasies. To make a girl you are gaming do this it takes work. I have great game and an active sex life so I dont bother with call girls but I can't knock those who do.
 

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edger said:
Just got back tonight. Good time. Regarding the ladies there: Yeah, you're gonna find some that are good providers and some that are bad providers. I've had at least 3 so far that let me kiss. One girl really got into it with me the other night. All she kept doing was kissing me. Real hottie. From the Czech Republic. These same girls have also let me c*m on them too. In total, I've had about 4 girls who've let me c*m on them that I can remember.
Now kissing a hooker is a different story. Just plain disgusting brother
 

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because they don't make condoms for the mouth...
 

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Paid 50 euros for a one in Amsterdam. Sieriously, its hard to say no to some of these girls, they are SMOKING. Anyways, nobody cared, seems like an everyday thing in Europe...so why not.
 

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Paid 50 euros for a one in Amsterdam. Sieriously, its hard to say no to some of these girls, they are SMOKING. Anyways, nobody cared, seems like an everyday thing in Europe...so why not.
I can remember having 6 encounters in one night with Amsterdam women (including going back to one that felt like a vise grip for the final encounter after I thought I had blown through all my spermal fuel.) It cost me about $150 (the going price was a lot cheaper and the US dollar a lot stronger), and I felt fantastic.
 

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Sandow said:
Sieriously, its hard to say no to some of these girls, they are SMOKING.
LOL. Some fine women there, eh?
 

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Yeah I've had prostos. It fills a void somewhat. It is kool? No. You LOSE.
 
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