"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone noticed how much guts some fat chicks have?

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I have noticed that fat girls in my experience are rather more aggressive when it comes to flirting etc.

Just today I went out on my lunch break to used the cash machine and some fat burd walked right up to me while she saw me in the queue chatted for a brief while and asked for my phonenumber to see if I wanted to go out for a meal with her.Other people in the queue were like wtf!! I never met her before in my life.

I gave it as despite being well a bit fat she had a pretty face and a nice bum plus everyone in the queue was listening so I didn't want to seem an arse Then I saw her car I am definately going to hook up now. :rockon: She obviously has $$$


. Although I have been out with hotter women I had to make more of an effort even if they did give me 'signs' eye contact smiles etc. Does anyone else notice how fat burds are more aggresive?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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its all the guts that make them fat.

have you seen their stomach!
 
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Mr Spoon said:
I have noticed that fat girls in my experience are rather more aggressive when it comes to flirting etc.

Just today I went out on my lunch break to used the cash machine and some fat burd walked right up to me while she saw me in the queue chatted for a brief while and asked for my phonenumber to see if I wanted to go out for a meal with her.Other people in the queue were like wtf!! I never met her before in my life.

I gave it as despite being well a bit fat she had a pretty face and a nice bum plus everyone in the queue was listening so I didn't want to seem an arse Then I saw her car I am definately going to hook up now. :rockon: She obviously has $$$


. Although I have been out with hotter women I had to make more of an effort even if they did give me 'signs' eye contact smiles etc. Does anyone else notice how fat burds are more aggresive?
Don't do it! It's not worth it... what if you get her pregnant? She'll own your balls and soul for life. I made a PROMISE to myself that I WOULD NEVER EVER DO A FAT OR CHUBBY CHICK. Yes I'm shallow but I like having high standards, I just can't respect chicks who can't take care of themselves and their appearance. You should have said NO when she asked, DJ doesn't care what other people think of him.
 

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Yeah, why say yes just because of how YOU think others might perceive you? Have a code by which you live, which is unchanged by any outside influence.
 

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Grrrr... I hate it when fat chicks crack onto me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I never thought a fat chick would turn me on, but I was wrong. Don't worry about what others might say, or what your normal tastes are, when it comes to sex, let your little head be your guide...enjoy
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Don't do it! It's not worth it... what if you get her pregnant? She'll own your balls and soul for life. I made a PROMISE to myself that I WOULD NEVER EVER DO A FAT OR CHUBBY CHICK. Yes I'm shallow but I like having high standards, I just can't respect chicks who can't take care of themselves and their appearance. You should have said NO when she asked, DJ doesn't care what other people think of him.
I just gave her my mobile number but I wasn't sure about actually meeting her.But when I saw her get back in her car( an austin martin) I kind of changed my mind. Her attractiveness scale went right up, she's not hideous anyways.She's either already married, rich or has a very good job.

I wish other girls were this forward. I have never been asked out in broaddaylight in a public place before by a complete stranger(guess the gym is paying off!!), It's kind of flattering.In fact I don't think many men would go up to a girl in a public place who they new nothing about and ask them out in front of an audience. Couple of girls further up the queue were pi55ing themselves laughing. I think she has the hide of a rhino got to give her that. !
 

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does she have the big boobs to go with the austin martin...if so, i'd say go for it. ...BUT PULL OUT, don't give that burb a chance to put a leash on you for life
 

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Mr Spoon said:
I have noticed that fat girls in my experience are rather more aggressive when it comes to flirting etc.
It's like guys who need to be drunk (not just buzzed) in order to sarge. They need be a bit extreme to help balance their 'situation.' They are able to go in Kamikaze-like with a 'what's there to lose' type attitude. Instead of aiming and shooting with a single sniper's bullet, they use heavy gauge buckshot and shoot into a crowd hoping to hit something, anything.....
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's like guys who need to be drunk (not just buzzed) in order to sarge. They need be a bit extreme to help balance their 'situation.' They are able to go in Kamikaze-like with a 'what's there to lose' type attitude. Instead of aiming and shooting with a single sniper's bullet, they use heavy gauge buckshot and shoot into a crowd hoping to hit something, anything.....
I'm trying to steer away from that mentality... gradually but surely... getting drunk =='s getting a damn gut... but man, sometimes its hard to see who's giving you IOI's in a bar scene...but its like the saying goes, cold approach is better than none.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ehh, fat girls are like mopeds and scooters...they're fun until your buddy catches you on one.

Me? I'd f.uck a chubby girl (chubby, not fat) if she had redeeming qualities like: a pretty face, big boobs, $$$. And she had a pretty face and was driving an Aston Martin? Beat her guts in dude.

BTW...whats a queue?
 

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Hey man, I don't know how good is your game, but interaction with women IS interaction with women. More field experience for j00! As if to hit it or not, it's your choice. Buns have never killed anyone. Yet.
 

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...but its like the saying goes, cold approach is better than none.
Keep that in mind and ease your reliance on the courage juice. It's not going to be available to you all the time.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
does she have the big boobs to go with the austin martin...if so, i'd say go for it. ...BUT PULL OUT, don't give that burb a chance to put a leash on you for life
You just gave me a flash back! :eek: This girl was on top of me, she was working it GOOOOD. i was about to Cvm and i was moving to pull out and she FORCED herself down to make sure i came inside her. Lucky for me......................... Nothing happened. The things girls will do. Its a crazy world out there :nervous:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In2theGame said:
You just gave me a flash back! :eek: This girl was on top of me, she was working it GOOOOD. i was about to Cvm and i was moving to pull out and she FORCED herself down to make sure i came inside her. Lucky for me......................... Nothing happened. The things girls will do. Its a crazy world out there :nervous:
Did you show that ho your pimp hand!?
 

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Mate you English or American?
 
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