"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
anyone notice this about women?
- Thread starter Bossman90
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tictac
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Just like guys do.
JohnChops
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Tictac said:
Cosign. We all think we can do better, and hell we can with the right mindset.
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It's called hypergamy. It's because a dude who is a 6 or 7 slips up when he's drunk and horny and hollers at a chick who is a 4. The flip situation is extremely rare. That chick who is a 4 who let a 6 dude put his **** in her suddenly thinks that's what she deserves. Take those example numbers and slide them up and down all you like.Bossman90 said:
Dudes give girls less than them attention every once in a while, especially if they are inexperienced and have no game. Sets a precedence with those girls. No chick who is a 7 says "oh man, im so drunk, I'll let a 4 **** me". They'll booty call or bar-close holler a dude who is a 7-8 easy and that same dude will feel like he hit the jackpot because he's not smashing a 5.