"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone notice alot more chicks checking you out/EC today?

fruitopiax

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I don't know if it's just my imagination, but as was out and about today I noticed alot more EC and girls checking me out than usual. Anyone else notice this? Is this a V-Day phenomenon?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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L777

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OMG yea I honestly did. Just goes to show how many girls out there are into you, you just gotta approach them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJVladdy

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I noticed, but then I often get good eye contact from females so nothing really unusual.
 

PectoralisMajor

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ya see, i;m still not sure what counts as good eye contact - obviously if a smile is included then yea, but otherwise its difficult to tell whether she fancies the pants off you, or if she just caught your eye casually..or if she thinks your a monstrosity ha.
 

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L777 said:
OMG yea I honestly did. Just goes to show how many girls out there are into you, you just gotta approach them.
True, women have sex with every single attractive guy that hits on them. :rolleyes:

MM
 

L777

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Mad Manic said:
True, women have sex with every single attractive guy that hits on them. :rolleyes:

MM
I didn't mention the word sex once....?! What a strange comment to make.
 

mutambo

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Your paranoia. What happens when it's a full moon, they jump you? Nothing else than usual today
Or I am wrong and this is some kind of US Thing
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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