"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone live in Irvine California?

War Against Betaism

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I met this girl there the other night through my friend, and I'm going to see her again this weekend. What I usually do on dates is take the girl to at least three different places or more of varying atmospheres to give her a strong sense of connection with me like suggested by Mystery. The problem is I don't know the area that well. I could take her back to my place, but it's like an hour drive, I'll be driving back and forth, it'll be too tiring.

What are some places that I could take her to? No, I don't feel like going to Disneyland or Knotts; I'm already going to go to Disneyland the weekend after, and I actually don't like Knotts that much. It doesn't even have to be in Irvine, it could be in Buena Park or Anaheim or any other surrounding cities.

And no, I don't want to ask her and let her decide. I want to be the one to lead her, and besides, it's bad to let the woman lead during a date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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Thanks a bunch man, I never expected a response that quick!

Ever been to Yogurtland? That's where I first met her, it was such a bomb place.
 

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The Sperminator said:
Irvine Spectrum, The Block, Downtown Disney.
Bingo. I'm not the only one around here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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